Go Back  Quiltingboard Forums >
  • Main
  • Do you ever give up on a project? >
  • Do you ever give up on a project?

  • Do you ever give up on a project?

    Thread Tools
     
    Old 01-31-2019, 09:03 PM
      #71  
    Super Member
     
    Join Date: Apr 2016
    Location: Blue Ridge Mountians
    Posts: 7,075
    Default

    Give yourself permission to let it go and move on. You certainly have my permission and admiration.
    Jane Quilter is offline  
    Old 01-31-2019, 09:44 PM
      #72  
    Junior Member
     
    Join Date: Jan 2011
    Posts: 133
    Default

    It looks beautiful but if you don't want to finish it give it away to someone who will. I have finished a lot of projects for people over the years. Just did one last week. A real pain but it is done. Once I took a red and white 1/3 done that was a mess, couldn't make the blocks right so I left the seams as they were. Finished it, quilted it, another person put the binding on. We gave it back to the lady and you would have thought she won the lottery. She didn't live long after but every week she told me she loved that quilt, never saw the mistakes. So don't toss it, give it away.
    Granchris is offline  
    Old 02-01-2019, 07:44 AM
      #73  
    Super Member
     
    Join Date: Mar 2016
    Posts: 2,834
    Default Does anyone really read these posts?

    Elise1 says in the initial post: " I can't even get the next piece sewn on because things are so out of line."
    So, it's not attractive and it cannot be finished in it's present form - now or later. Can we quit telling her to keep it, finish it, hang it up, etc.?

    Elise1 said, "I put it away for over a year and a half and have just now pulled it out to finish it,"
    So, she had already done that. So can we quit telling her to put it away and try again later?

    Elise1 said
    , "can I use the rest of the fabric in another quilt ...?"
    So, can we just quit asking to finish her quilt for her? She wants to use the fabric elsewhere.

    In conclusion, Elsie1 says:"Can I have permission to stop on this quilt? It is no longer fun."

    I say/said, Yes. I've done it and it was liberating.

    bkay

    Last edited by bkay; 02-01-2019 at 07:47 AM.
    bkay is offline  
    Old 02-01-2019, 08:14 AM
      #74  
    Senior Member
     
    Join Date: Feb 2012
    Posts: 673
    Default

    After five years of a 'Storm at Sea' sitting in a bag in pieces, have I given up? I'm still not sure!
    Manalto is offline  
    Old 02-01-2019, 03:36 PM
      #75  
    Super Member
     
    Join Date: May 2013
    Location: Ballwin, MO
    Posts: 4,230
    Default

    First of all, congratulations on finishing your UFOs (all but one)!! That is a great achievement.

    It sounds like you have made an honest effort on this one and then some. Yes, it is okay to stop working on this quilt and to use the remaining fabrics for something else. One of my Dad's rules for poker that he taught me was, 'don't throw good money after bad.' The same could be said for time and energy. Your time and energy are precious, you don't have to keep giving them to a project you feel was a mistake from the get go. Let it go and move on to something you find pleasure in. And think of all the projects you did complete!
    joe'smom is offline  
    Old 02-05-2019, 01:08 AM
      #76  
    Super Member
     
    Join Date: Nov 2017
    Location: Portland, OR
    Posts: 2,245
    Default

    Originally Posted by tranum
    I put one that I hated on the “Free to take” table at Quilt Guild. Someone finished it, showed it at “Show & Tell” and we both were happy !
    This is a good idea. I have some things that really need to move on.
    Darcyshannon is offline  
    Old 02-06-2019, 05:43 PM
      #77  
    Junior Member
     
    xenodeno's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Jul 2010
    Location: Iowa
    Posts: 198
    Default

    Can I have permission to stop on this quilt? It is no longer fun.

    If its no longer fun, I say ," forget it!" I know its hard, but , if like me , you got into quilting to relax, its just not worth it if you aren't relaxed with it. JMHO!
    xenodeno is offline  
    Old 02-06-2019, 05:58 PM
      #78  
    Super Member
     
    wildyard's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Mar 2010
    Location: Upstate NY, north of Syracuse Area
    Posts: 6,003
    Default

    Originally Posted by Jshep
    I love to adopt these projects or orphan blocks. I take them and either attempt to finish them or create a whole new project.
    Yes, so do I. I have just finished several using such things that have been gifted to me.
    wildyard is offline  
    Old 02-06-2019, 07:07 PM
      #79  
    Senior Member
     
    Join Date: Feb 2013
    Location: East Kootenays, BC
    Posts: 947
    Default

    Originally Posted by QuiltnNan
    How about cutting around the parts that you have finished, add some other 'blocks' or borders, and call it a table topper or wall hanging. you should be proud of what you have done so far.
    Funnily enough, that’s exactly what I was thinking QuiltnNan.
    Kwiltr is offline  
    Related Topics
    Thread
    Thread Starter
    Forum
    Replies
    Last Post
    Butterfli19
    Main
    59
    09-03-2014 11:06 PM
    Dreaming
    Main
    123
    08-21-2011 04:52 PM

    Posting Rules
    You may not post new threads
    You may not post replies
    You may not post attachments
    You may not edit your posts

    BB code is On
    Smilies are On
    [IMG] code is On
    HTML code is On
    Trackbacks are Off
    Pingbacks are Off
    Refbacks are Off



    FREE Quilting Newsletter