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    Old 06-20-2011, 06:19 AM
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    Dido to all that they said.
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    Old 06-20-2011, 06:29 AM
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    Please do not give up. it is a challenge and no one is more critical than one's self. There are times no one will notice. And each seam you sew will get better and better. Hang in there and ejoy your creations.
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    Old 06-20-2011, 06:33 AM
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    I can understand your feelings when things don't match up or when the blocks are not the size they should be or when points are off. I have suffered the same frustrations. Sometimes we just have to do the best we can and just keep trying. I just finished some blocks from a class I took. Every block was the correct size and all the points and seems were where they should be. Probably the most accurate blocks I have ever made. I don't know what was different with these blocks but it was exciting to see them come together and be so accurate. Sometimes I think the fabric you are using makes a lot of difference. Some fabric has more stretch and give than other fabric and this will certainly affect the sewing of a block. Don't give up, keep trying!
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    Old 06-20-2011, 06:37 AM
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    Do you know someone who quilts that could guide you through your problem? If so, ask!!! Don't get so discouraged that you quit. It could be something so simple. Even the people at your local quilt store would be willing to show you what you are doing wrong. Or, maybe you are just being too hard on yourself.
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    Old 06-20-2011, 06:40 AM
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    If you're frustrated, do something that DOESN'T have to match. Cut good sized blocks (I'm thinking 6") and off-set each row - sort of like bricks. Then trim the edges off the quilt when you're done. No matching and you have a quilt. Then you'll feel great and ready to tackle something else. I'm all for people challenging themselves, but get some practice and success under your belt and it will help a lot! Keep at it - and HAVE FUN!
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    Old 06-20-2011, 07:00 AM
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    Originally Posted by SharBear
    ok, I'm having a crisis of ability.

    I WANT to be a quilter. I understand that cutting is the foundation that quilts are built on and that accurate cutting leads to accurate piecing leads to accurate block sizes leads to quilt tops that lay flat leads to quilts that rock.


    I'm making blocks for my first swap and am ready to put them in the bonfire. The points don't line up no matter how many times I take them out and put them back togehter. I've made sure all the seams are pressed correctly - I think I have used a whole bottle of Best Press on 12 not-yet-assembled blocks!


    Maybe it's time for me to admit that for the first time in 46 years I've tried to do something that is just beyond me. I keep thinking this should be the perfect fit for me - I love, love, love Math (I have a degree in Applied Math!) - and jigsaw puzzles - if one is out I'm banned from the room it's in because my family knows I will stay up all night finishing it!

    There may be a giant de-stash sale hitting the classified board today ....

    :cry: :cry: :cry:
    The trouble I see is you're stuggling with the demon called perfection. If you look at the early quilts made for function, many were not perfect, but yet they were still warm and loved.

    Once you quilting becomes a job, you loose the joy in the process. Technique comes with time.

    Enjoy the day!
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    Old 06-20-2011, 07:05 AM
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    I agree. Usually when I struggle with something if I go off and leave it for a couple of days I can figure it out when I come back. Don't give up!!!!
    Originally Posted by lorimax5859
    So sorry you've hit a "road block." Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day. :-D
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    Old 06-20-2011, 07:07 AM
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    Please don't give up. When working with a new pattern I use muslin to do the first block. Hand press with a wood iron. I usually don't press with starch until the finally squaring up and completion. Others do it differently, but this always seems to work for me. I tried pressing before with starch and my fabric shrunk. Ahh! What problems. Good luck and hang in there.
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    Old 06-20-2011, 07:50 AM
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    Put it all aside for a couple of days. Cut a fresh block and complete it and then maybe you can see what you are dong incorrectly. Math and puzzles definitely qualify you to be a quilter.
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    Old 06-20-2011, 07:58 AM
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    Sharon, dear: I hear your despair. I too am a perfectionist and as an eye doctor had tons of esoteric math classes. Then, last year when I decided I wanted to learn to quilt all my fancy math was for naught. So - I began taking classes and for the first year called myself the Village Idiot because, like you, nary a seam would meet. I began pinning and Lo! and behold, slowly those dratted seams/corners began to fall into place. Persistence is the name of the game. Looking back I am stunned at how much I've improved and learned - and continue to learn. Hang in there, girlfriend.
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