Wow, that takes some nerve (or other things you could call it) to call your lawyer and bank. I hope that they are giving her NO information and shouldn't even be taking her calls on the matter.Originally Posted by Ninnie
I have told my sister no. They were trying to re-finance their house and take out equity a couple of years ago when house prices were way up. My sister said she wanted to go to Hawaii. They have bad credit and couldn't get a loan so they asked me to put her husband on one of my credit cards as an authorized user so that it would show up on his credit as a good account. I declined. I have worked hard for my good credit and I am not tying my finances to theirs in any way. I don't know how but they eventually got a loan and according to my father their house payments are now $4k per month. After that is when they had to borrow $32k to get their loan current or go into foreclosure.
I want to see Egypt, Italy, a few other places too but I'll wait until all this is settled and I've allocated where it is to go. I wouldn't borrow money to do it!