Brings tears to my eyes
10-07-2011, 09:09 PM
#82
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Originally Posted by janquilts'ncrochets
Good for you. I'm with you, too. I left my unhappy situation after 34 years, and I'm better off now. It's great being able to do what & when you feel like doing. :-D
10-07-2011, 10:20 PM
#83
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Location: Australia
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The Australian coat of arms has two animals on it - the emu and the kangaroo. They were chosen because the only direction the can move in is a forward one. Even though we are a long way away - in times of doubt,perhaps you could keep one or both of those animals in mind and just keep moving forward as they do. All the best.
10-08-2011, 01:11 AM
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Originally Posted by timepasser
I have to thank everyone on this board. This has been the best therapy for me. I don't like to talk about it much but after 22yrs. I left a not so good marriage. The encouragement I get on this board makes me so happy it brings tears to my eyes. It is so nice to hear that I can do something good, and to not be belittled on a 24/7 basis. Your encouragement has been so wonderful, and I am beginning to feel like I can accomplish things I set my mind to. This has been a long uphill battle for me and you are taking my hand all the way. Thank-you so much, God Bless you all
I hope you continue to feel stronger every day. Just keep in mind that you are a very worthwhile person and there are lots of people who recognize this.
10-08-2011, 02:46 AM
#87
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Location: Mentor, Ohio
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Understand where you are coming from. I got out of a 20 year marriage with 2 young children - that was 10 years ago - it took a long time to really feel confident in myself again. It can be done - give yourself time & the permission to cry. You'll still have down days but before long the good days outnumber the down ones. Keep us posted on how you are doing. (you can always PM me if you'd like)
10-08-2011, 06:13 AM
#89
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Location: central Iowa
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Timepasser the ladies here are kind and thoughtful aren't they. Hang in there things get better with time. You can do it I did so many years ago. Keep busy and think positive. You are a survivor. God bless you .... :)
10-08-2011, 11:54 AM
#90
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Location: Whitby, Ontario. British expat
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I left after 23 years of total control and undermining and abuse. I know how hard it is but never underestimate how strong you are! The only rules to follow for the rest of your life is to be you! you are enough! and to take care of you!! you are the best friend you will ever have!
I am remarried, I have a husband now who does not control me, understands that I have to be on my own sometimes, have to have company sometimes, need to quilt and create always (he now quilts too!) and even though he calls me his 'pita' (pain in the a**! lol) seems to enjoy my independent streak.
Have fun, enjoy life, quilt and dance often!
I am remarried, I have a husband now who does not control me, understands that I have to be on my own sometimes, have to have company sometimes, need to quilt and create always (he now quilts too!) and even though he calls me his 'pita' (pain in the a**! lol) seems to enjoy my independent streak.
Have fun, enjoy life, quilt and dance often!
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