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    Old 03-08-2011, 01:15 PM
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    Originally Posted by Sadiemae
    I don't know why it is heavy, but it really is.
    The skeins are not that heavy though, yet once it gets put into an afghan etc., it starts to weigh.
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    Old 03-08-2011, 01:18 PM
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    Originally Posted by Hope2quilt
    Sometimes people say or type things and they have no idea how they sound to the other person. I think everyone says things they probably should not say.
    I agree. People see things differently, even in person.
    Example: witness's to a crime, they all see things from a different view even if they were standing next to each other.
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    Old 03-08-2011, 01:20 PM
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    Originally Posted by Magdalena
    Well, the rule of my Mama's pinch on the arm is, "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all." So, after many years, with one or two scars on my arm, if I don't like something, I have learned to compliment something that has caught my eye, instead of seeing something as a whole. Or, just saying nothing at all :)
    I was taught that also. There was a hand quilted whole cloth at the fair some years ago. I don't care for whole cloth quilts. But, this person had 7 years of her life invested in the quilt and I really could appreciate that and the quality of her work. And it won 1st place, as it should.
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    Old 03-08-2011, 04:26 PM
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    How boring if we were all the same!
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    Old 03-08-2011, 05:12 PM
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    Originally Posted by emerald46
    How boring if we were all the same!
    Yes it would be, sadly I think there are people though who think along the lines of I like/love this so YOU MUST TOO!
    So when someone tells them sorry not my thing, they get called rude etc., when it is just the honest truth.
    You can't expect others to like or love everything you do in life.
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    Old 03-08-2011, 05:33 PM
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    The next year I made one for my sister - gave it to her Christmas - took me almost a year to make - King size. It ended up on the floor where it was never used and I think it was thrown out (not sure, don't care) If she did throw it out, she was not thinking. Reciently she and her hubby have been complaining how chilly it is in their basement, hmmmmm that nice thick afghan would be nice n warm huh?
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    Just wondering, is she going to get ANOTHER one?
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    Old 03-08-2011, 08:34 PM
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    I have adopted a philosophy about life that works for me:
    I don't have control over ANYTHING other than how I react to life. ( meaning people, places, situations, etc)
    Sure makes life easier :)
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    Old 03-09-2011, 02:05 AM
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    Originally Posted by Ramona Byrd
    The next year I made one for my sister - gave it to her Christmas - took me almost a year to make - King size. It ended up on the floor where it was never used and I think it was thrown out (not sure, don't care) If she did throw it out, she was not thinking. Reciently she and her hubby have been complaining how chilly it is in their basement, hmmmmm that nice thick afghan would be nice n warm huh?
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    Just wondering, is she going to get ANOTHER one?
    Nope.
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    Old 03-09-2011, 03:45 AM
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    We should always be kind. I have seen some quilts that I though were just too bright are whatever, But that's me I would never cut them down. They are beautiful to the maker :-)
    Kindness and grace... Thanks for reminding us.
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