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They think there is some sense of relationship...
you are right in not loaning or co-signing...

Wow...that is horrible..I would call her former employer...and possibly the police. You never know what else she may be thinking of doing.

I wouldn't co-sign for any of the kids let alone a stranger. If worse came to worse I'd have to pay. No way

She is a vulture!!! I am sorry such an inconsiderate human being dared approach you at such a difficult time in your life. Hugs.

Kat

??? She would have thought I reached through the phone because my words would have slapped her hard enough to rattle her stupid brain. People like her just take up good air! How horrible to be someone like that.

WOW, i would have been totally speechless!

I think that that is someone just wanting to take advantage of you...you are smart not to fall into her trap....sorry for your lost and do take care of yourself and family!!!

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Originally Posted by tuesy

Today I received a call from my mortgage broker that I've known for about 8 years. We used her when we bought this house.
Anyways, we're not chummy, or even best friends. We say "Hi" if we see each other in town, etc.
With the passing of my DH, the kids and I were thinking of moving, so I called her and my real estate agent (the one who sold us this house) to see what the market was like and what I would have to do to the house to sell it. I was just feeling the market and kicking around ideas.. which they both knew.
After all the comps were in and taking alot of other things into consideration, I decided that right now isn't the time to sell.

Well today I get a call from my mortgage broker. She says she just calling to "chit chat" and see how we're doing. Asks about me, the kids, talked about me staying put for awhile, etc..
Then she says "I have something to ask you and don't know how to ask other than to just come out with it". I said ok hesitantly..then she says "I'm wanting to know if you could let me borrow $2800 and I'll pay you back or I could take out a loan and you could co-sign for me, but I'd pay the payments" She didn't tell me what the money was for, other than it was "really important" that she get this money. Oooh and she's not working either..

Of course I'm not going to give her any money or co-sign, but still.. How can people be so gusty or insensative to the fact that I didn't win the lottery, I lost my husband who made sure that he provided for the kids and I??? I just don't get it..

I'm very sorry for your loss. And this woman must either be very desperate or very insensitive, or both. I am glad you didn't do it!
Anymart

I certainly hope you class her as your ex mortgage broker now! Shocking what a hide!! :shock: