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Old 02-12-2015, 04:49 AM
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I think Katier 825 and NJ quilter covered border information quite well. I would call myself an early stage intermediate
quilter and agree with you that it is intimidating. After making several baby quilts, it has gotten easier to do the borders.
I think you will gain confidence as you do the first then the second....
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Old 02-12-2015, 06:06 AM
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Some of my squared up quilts have wavy borders and I made and sewed them the same way I made the borders that lay perfectly flat on other quilts. It doesn't bother me at all. One of my wavy border quilts won Viewer's Choice at a quilt show and the near perfect quilt got a nice job sticker.
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Old 02-12-2015, 06:15 AM
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I am a beginner quilter, perfectionist and intimidated by borders. The Craftsy class on borders was very helpful for me. I learned a lot which gave me the courage to add borders.
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Old 02-12-2015, 06:49 AM
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I'm so glad to hear so many other people are relaxed quilters like I am, especially considering the quilting mistakes I made yesterday.
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Old 02-12-2015, 10:12 AM
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My mentor does have hard core thoughts/opinions. Don't use poly batting. Don't let the longarmer use poly thread. That I need to upgrade my sewing machine which is only a year old and I am very comfortable with.

Sheilz- thinking about you said, I feel you are right. She is probably hindering more than helping. I really appreciate you being honest with your opinion of my mentor. Sometimes I just needed someone to confirm what I've been thinking I guess.
She's been a great help to you but now may be the time to become your own quiltmaker. She obviously has strong opinions, some of which match yours, many which don't, and you should feel free, now that you've learned the basics, to do your own thing. Your sewing machine, for instance: if you're happy with it and it works for you, let that subject be closed. After all, opinions are just that; there are no "laws" in what we're doing here.

As for borders, other here have given you great advice on one-border-at-a-time, and borders with mitered corners. I can only add: measure correctly, and just sew that first border on!

I think I was glad of my ignorance when I first began making quilts because, self-taught, I had no idea what I might be doing wrong and consequently, had no fear. I was a long time garment sewer but had never made a quilt. I didn't know what I didn't know, so I watched a few youtube videos, read a book or two, and just plunged ahead. Your issue is that you've aligned yourself with an expert and as helpful as she's been, her knowledge and experience -- and opinions! -- have intimidated you.

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Old 02-12-2015, 11:39 AM
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Even experts can have some odd opinions.
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Old 02-12-2015, 12:29 PM
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My, my, my, talk about the quilt border police. Your quilting friend may mean well, but obviously she is causing you to doubt your abilities, and that's not right. There are some great comments here on the QB and I suggest you read them, and then do what you feel right because that's the right thing to do. I had a quilt teacher who advised putting the inner and outer borders together to save time, as you have to sew them together eventually. Quilting should be FUN, not "work", so enjoy the process, do what you feel is right for you - that's the right answer to your question.
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Old 02-12-2015, 12:41 PM
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First off, good for you for trying even in the presence of a lot of negativity. I doubt I would have ever gotten started with that sort of "guidance".

I am Brother certified and service their machines for a shop in the city. I also service all the other brands at home for my own business and some for that shop. Depending on the Brother machine, some are as good or better than their counterparts. The department store ones can often benefit from a look over because they sometimes could use some adjustments to make them more pliable. That said, that's not just a Brother thing, it's almost all department store machines. They're priced for a certain market and to get that extra bit of brand awareness. The only Brother machines I would avoid are the ones in the 60s - 70s range and that's only because they have a plastic cam gear and I haven't come across one that wasn't broken in the last few years I've been servicing.

Now - borders. I'm a Longarm quilter and a fairly new piecer. I am working on my 6th quilt this year. I piece so I can quilt. My first quilt was pieced and free motion quilted on a 1951 Singer 15-90. It had no borders and no plan whatsoever as to design. Binding was character building on this quilt. It still is. It's my kryptonite.

My second quilt was made for DH. It had straight borders. I had to remove one border while it was on the frame and remove about 2.5". I have no idea how I did that so wrong, but I did. For me, for some reason, it's always the shorter sides I have trouble with. The long ones are typically fine.

3rd was a bed quilt, straight borders. That one taught me to come up with a quilting plan before loading it. It was on the frame for almost 5 months while I decided how to quilt each portion as I went along. As a recovering perfectionist, I learned that this turns out to be the slowest way to quilt a quilt. This is also the quilt I ripped a seam 4 times on to try to get it to match better. I didn't stop until I finally stuck the seam ripper through the fabric. Now I try really hard to adhere to what the lady who taught me to sew and runs our sewing group says: "Can you live with it?" Sometimes I can, sometimes not. But the key (for me, it might not be exactly what she meant) is not "Do I love the way I stitched that" but "Is it the worst thing that happened to me today and what does it affect long term?"

4th and 5th quilts have mitred borders. The 4th is bed sized and uses one mitred border for the outside border and has 15 mitred squares. I have one corner that isn't perfect but I can "quilt that out" when it finally hits the longarm. The 5th is similar to the 4th top in a lap size but I modified it to practice mitres and to help me come up with a quilting plan for the 4th one. 14 of the 16 of the mitres are perfect. The last two I must have been asleep when I pieced them but now that it's quilted, I have to look hard to figure out which ones they are. The 4th quilt is the only one that remains unquilted at this point.

Lastly - thread and other myths. There are few facts and real truths in this industry. It's mostly opinion, preference and belief. Just look at all the shops who will tell people to only use X thread. Typically it's not because Pfaff, Bernina, Brother etc tells them that's all their machines will run - it's because they want the sales.

I have heard that museums are starting to recommend poly for surface design on quilts because the cotton rots and we lose the design. Today's poly is not the same as yesterday's poly. Many of the new polys break easier than their cotton counterparts.

It sounds like it's time for you to go out and develop your own opinions and preferences.

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Old 02-12-2015, 02:56 PM
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Hugggggggs to you and everyone else who has been intimidated by someone who KNOWS the ONLY RIGHT WAY to get your quilt made. Bless your heart for realizing that you are ready to move out on your own and have a little flexibility. So many rules can be binding for sure, rather than reassuring.
You are definitely in the right place, you will get lots of help here on the QB for any questions you might have.
I wish you very good luck with your new adventures in bordering; can't wait to see photos of your projects!!
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Old 02-12-2015, 03:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Onebyone View Post
Some of my squared up quilts have wavy borders and I made and sewed them the same way I made the borders that lay perfectly flat on other quilts. It doesn't bother me at all. One of my wavy border quilts won Viewer's Choice at a quilt show and the near perfect quilt got a nice job sticker.
LOL This is so true! I just put the borders on what is probably my 115th quilt. I do them the same way every time. These borders are wavy. I don't know why, but I can live with it. I would blame it on it being on point and having bias edges, but I've done several of them that had bias edges and were NOT wavy.
I just take it in stride and say it's the way I was holding my mouth.
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