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Old 07-14-2011, 10:22 AM
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Same thing happened to my daughter - she even told them a minimum bid of $80 (which is what she had into the quilt) and they still sold it for less than the minimum - it seems as though some people just don't appreciate handmade quilts - I have a cousin who tells me she can get a beautiful quilt at K-mart - so go for it! I won't be making quilts for someone who doesn't appreciate it - same as sewing for people who don't appreciate it!!
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Old 07-14-2011, 10:23 AM
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When I donate something to a silent auction, I put in the first bid, usually 60% of the cost of the item. If it goes for more, fine. But, if I end up with the item, it's a $$$ donation to the organization, and I have an item for the next raffle, or a gift for someone. Most people, my own family included, have no idea how much time and money it takes to make a quilt.
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Old 07-14-2011, 11:06 AM
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CK, I'm so sorry that happened at all, let alone twice. If things were going on that kept them from auctioning those quilts off appropriately, they should have given them back to you. JMHO I also understand the giving thing - I try to give and then think, it's theirs and they can do what they want, but some things are easier than others. A quilt has a lot of emotion and love in each part of the process and that should be appreciated. I think the donation of $ is the better option for this group - not that we all don't work very hard for our money too, but this way you can control the value a little better. Big Hugs. I really hate that happened to you two times. What a sweetheart to even give them a second chance.
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Old 07-14-2011, 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted by lalaland
I would try to think positively that perhaps the people that got the quilts were thrilled because maybe they could not really afford to pay a lot and got a treasure they ordinarily would have stood a chance of getting.
What an awesome attitude. Wish I had thought of that. lol I know that would make me feel better.
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Old 07-14-2011, 11:17 AM
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Give them cash next time and explain that from lack of interest in the last quilts you gave for the auction that the people who attend the event are just not into quilts and you would rather just give the money in place of your work.
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Old 07-14-2011, 11:17 AM
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Oh I so feel for you! I agree maybe just a cash donation next time. We want our quilts to be loved and appreciated, not just an afterthought in an auction. Sorry this happened to you, not once but twice. OUCH!
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Old 07-14-2011, 11:25 AM
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"...wouldn't be so bad except the person who was (in charge) is the daughter of a fabulous quilter---who knows better!"

Is the person confirming the proceeds the same person that is the daughter of a fabulous quilter, and there's a little 'friendly' competition and they may be intentionally trying to 'push' your buttons? Can you confirm with someone else? I know that the encomy is bad, but that's really hard for me to believe, $10 and $15 dollars just doesn't sound anywhere close to realistic.
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Old 07-14-2011, 11:25 AM
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Yep....I would not donate unless I could set a reserve on it.
Ha...maybe I should start shopping auctions!
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Old 07-14-2011, 11:32 AM
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Originally Posted by Thusnelda
Oh no! I can feel and understand your frustration.

Try to think of the one person who got the quilt and went home really happy about the unbelievable bargain he or most likely she got. I'm sure she treasures it no less, even if she paid so little.
Great advice. I'm sorry this happened to you. I agree a cash donation would be best in the future.
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Old 07-14-2011, 12:11 PM
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Another idea is to put a minimum bid on the items and ask for them back if they don't make the minimum/
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