OK, Quilt Guilds, Shouldn't you encourage those who show n Tell???
#41
Originally Posted by Eddie
Originally Posted by scrap quilter
Eddie
I am so sorry to hear that you wouldn't be welcome in your local quilt guild........ what's to say it's for ladies only???????
Have you tried going to one of the meetings????? If not I would attend and bring something for show and tell........
Scrap Quilter
I am so sorry to hear that you wouldn't be welcome in your local quilt guild........ what's to say it's for ladies only???????
Have you tried going to one of the meetings????? If not I would attend and bring something for show and tell........
Scrap Quilter
I'm not sure I would get in the door if I tried to crash one of their meetings, and I really wouldn't want to make any waves within the group. I can respect (maybe not fully understand) that they want to have a closed group like this. I know several members of the guild personally, so am thinking I might casually ask about the policy some time and see what they say. Here's what the bylaws state:
"Men and children (under the age of 12) unless specifically invited to participate, shall be excluded from all guild activities."
That's pretty explicit, in my opinion. :) I'd like to participate and help with whatever needs doing. I'm President of our local historic park, and am editor and past vice-president and treasurer of our county historical society. So I understand how difficult it can be to get "doers" involved in helping run the organization and making it function. I think I would have a lot to offer in that regard, but doesn't look like it's a possibility. Oh, well. Maybe it'll change some day.
#42
Originally Posted by Cathe
Having written a few bylaws in my time... I imagine that they are talking about "men" as regards the spouses of the members. If a man was the member and wanted to bring his non-member wife, you would have the same problem -- nonmembers wanting the same benefits as the dues-paying members.
Children are an obvious potential distraction/disruption in a formal meeting, and I can see that non-quilting, non-member spouses might be, too. The goal is to have a focused membership who are there to learn about quilting. Social interaction is nice, but the monthly meetings are often quite structured "business/lecture" meetings.
Children are an obvious potential distraction/disruption in a formal meeting, and I can see that non-quilting, non-member spouses might be, too. The goal is to have a focused membership who are there to learn about quilting. Social interaction is nice, but the monthly meetings are often quite structured "business/lecture" meetings.
"Membership in the xxxx Guild shall be open to any lady who has an interest in quilts and quilting."
It's from those two clauses that seem to be expressly stating the intent of a women only guild. But I could be reading more into it than what's there. Anyway, I plan to ask quietly about it and see what the response it. It may be (and I hope it is) that the intent is simply to keep it focused on quilters and not their non-quilting spouses.
#43
We have men in our guild. In fact, one of them has the fanciest long arm computer driven quilting "machine" I've ever seen. (he does wonderful work!) The other man is a retired doctor. I have only been in our group for less than a year but have found them to be welcoming and friendly. They offer classes, too, from quilt pros from out of our area which is a real plus.
The most important thing is to try to get involved in the activities. Don't wait to be asked--volunteer for the Opportunity Quilt or to make Comfort Quilts or whatever.
(And if "your" quilt is not a good experience, find a few friends and start your own---get together and quilt! ----plus you always have all of us online!!!)
The most important thing is to try to get involved in the activities. Don't wait to be asked--volunteer for the Opportunity Quilt or to make Comfort Quilts or whatever.
(And if "your" quilt is not a good experience, find a few friends and start your own---get together and quilt! ----plus you always have all of us online!!!)
#44
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prolongarmquilter, i don't blame you for being upset with those rude ppl.
Maride, that's awful how they spoke to and treated your son. hmph!
2wheelwoman...i'm applauding you. I like to look out for the underdog too, cause lots of times, I are one...
well, sometimes...cause I'm small :mrgreen:
Maride, that's awful how they spoke to and treated your son. hmph!
2wheelwoman...i'm applauding you. I like to look out for the underdog too, cause lots of times, I are one...
well, sometimes...cause I'm small :mrgreen:
#45
I would think a quilt guild's main objective would be to support. This "blanket" support needs to cover ALL members as well as community needs of children/charity, etc. ... what is life without kindness to others? When I read some of the quilt guild horror stories, I am reminded of the frequent cruelty of school children, including the "closing of ranks" against a newcomer. It's unacceptable in adults .... that's my opinion and I'm sticking with it! For those of you who do belong to a fine guild and treasure your membership and fellow members, I say: Good for you; you are very fortunate and are aware of it.
#46
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Originally Posted by weezie
I would think a quilt guild's main objective would be to support. This "blanket" support needs to cover ALL members as well as community needs of children/charity, etc. ... what is life without kindness to others? When I read some of the quilt guild horror stories, I am reminded of the frequent cruelty of school children, including the "closing of ranks" against a newcomer. It's unacceptable in adults .... that's my opinion and I'm sticking with it! For those of you who do belong to a fine guild and treasure your membership and fellow members, I say: Good for you; you are very fortunate and are aware of it.
Accept each others differences, and tastes :wink:
#47
I thought about joining but can't afford all the extras, and don't have a machine that is light enough to carry around. I can not afford the newest fabrics out...If I get any it has to be on sale....I get fabric where I can and buy by feel. I get my best at garage or church sales. I have fun and sew by myself...people make me nervous anyway :D This group is the greatest
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