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hopetoquilt 06-23-2012 05:23 PM

Sometimes it is our interpretation of the directions and sometimes it is the way it is stated. Did the instructor know that you "tear" your fabric or did she assume that you just cut? Would the directions have been okay if you cut?

When I give directions/model something, I try to start with, "this is how I do it (and why); why not try it and see if it works for you." Classes are for learning and trying a new strategy/method and then self evaluating what works for you.

Marycumi 06-23-2012 05:37 PM

I am always weary of a teacher that speaks in absolutes. Always do it this way, there is no other way, this is the best way, etc. There is more than one way to get the job done. I like to try new ways to get it done. But don't verbally slap my hand when I don't agree with what is said. I take classes to learn new techniques. I will try them and keep using them only if they make sense to me.

bearisgray 06-23-2012 06:15 PM


Originally Posted by hopetoquilt (Post 5311852)
Sometimes it is our interpretation of the directions and sometimes it is the way it is stated. Did the instructor know that you "tear" your fabric or did she assume that you just cut? Would the directions have been okay if you cut?

When I give directions/model something, I try to start with, "this is how I do it (and why); why not try it and see if it works for you." Classes are for learning and trying a new strategy/method and then self evaluating what works for you.

It was one of those 'learn and live' deals - I had understood to set aside the border fabric first - so that it wouldn't get inadvertently cut up for the center of the quilt -

NOW I start from the center out and hope for the best when I get to the borders. That usually works for me.

That was almost 20 years ago - I've learned a couple of things since then - and have a lot more confidence in my own judgment than I did way back then.

suebee 06-23-2012 06:16 PM


Originally Posted by MacThayer (Post 5311840)
You just have to do what works for you. I was a seamstress for many, many years, and old habits die hard. Because of this, I was accustomed to pressing all of my seams open. I have been nailed for this at every class I have taken since becoming a quilter. I don't like pressing to one side, I don't like nesting my seams, and I don't like stitching in the ditch all that much. I'm extremely careful to use 3 ply, strong cotton thread (Masterpiece 50# 3 ply) for my piecing, and carry the stitching to then end of each piece and lock it, so my seams don't come apart. I press the thread to "bury" it before I press it open. I like the way my tops lie flatter with open seams. More and more designers are pressing their seams open, like Bonnie Hunter. It works for me, I like it, stop harassing me, I'm sick of your lectures, and who made you the quilt police?

I feel your pain.

AMEN Sista!

BellaBoo 06-23-2012 06:44 PM

If I'm taking a workshop or class for a pattern the instructor designed and made herself then I'll do what she says. She knows the tips and hints for her pattern. If it is a general class with no technique involved then I do it the way it makes sense to me. I'm more of a make as desired type quilter.

Connie M. 06-23-2012 06:59 PM

The best advice I ever got about anything was "Advice is like being passed a plate of cookies. Look it over. Take what you want and let the rest pass by". Also free advice is worth what you pay for it.

KwiltyKahy 06-23-2012 07:25 PM


Originally Posted by Connie M. (Post 5312038)
The best advice I ever got about anything was "Advice is like being passed a plate of cookies. Look it over. Take what you want and let the rest pass by". Also free advice is worth what you pay for it.

I like it, I like it!!!

jaciqltznok 06-23-2012 07:28 PM


Originally Posted by hopetoquilt (Post 5311852)
Sometimes it is our interpretation of the directions and sometimes it is the way it is stated. Did the instructor know that you "tear" your fabric or did she assume that you just cut? Would the directions have been okay if you cut?

When I give directions/model something, I try to start with, "this is how I do it (and why); why not try it and see if it works for you." Classes are for learning and trying a new strategy/method and then self evaluating what works for you.

BINGO....I was going to say...it is not always what it is said, but often what is heard that is the issue...how one interprets things varies as greatly as the leaves on a tree!

Maggiem 06-23-2012 09:23 PM


Originally Posted by jaciqltznok (Post 5312091)
BINGO....I was going to say...it is not always what it is said, but often what is heard that is the issue...how one interprets things varies as greatly as the leaves on a tree!

I agree wholeheartedly.

AliKat 06-23-2012 10:31 PM

What I remember most was taking a class to make a particular patterened shirt. I has stated that ready made patterns rarely fit me and knew I would need fitting help. I was assured that I would get the help and the shirt would fit.

Well. It didn't. I had bought extra fabric to make matching shorts but ended up cutting into that fabric ... after the shirt didn't fit. Guess what? It still didn't fit!

I do have some restrictions and need to do some things differently when sewing due to the arthritis. This affects my machine and quilting.

Now I am particular about my needs and will challenge any LQS if I don't get what I ask for and will respectfully but determinedly ask for my money back.

Somehow, now that I question more and am more explicit I have had no more problems. Yeah.

ali


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