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twinkie 02-12-2012 06:59 AM

Lap Quilt for My Brother - TOO LATE!!
 
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I was in the hospital for 8 days in the beginning of November for a severe infection and high temperature. Before I was able to go home, my younger brother, Carson, was hospitalized and had two major surgeries. He was slowly improving so once I was home, I decided to make him a large lap quilt for him to use during recovery. Sadly, I did not finish the quilt before he took a turn for the worse and passed away on November 30th. I just couldn't work in it anymore. After thinking about it, I decided to finish the quilt for my sister, Dianne, my only remaining sibling out of 8 children. 15 years ago, Dianne, who is now in her mid 60's, was given custody of her two grandsons who were under 3 years old. The youngest one, Darien, is autistic and it has been a rough road for her. Darien was devoted to my brother and took his passing very hard, so Dianne wanted to share it with Darien. On the label I told Darien that each time he wrapped up in the quilt it would be a great big hug from Uncle Carson, Nana and Aunt Donna. This is what I have done with the quilt. Thanks for listening and looking.

[ATTACH=CONFIG]311127[/ATTACH] [ATTACH=CONFIG]311128[/ATTACH] [ATTACH=CONFIG]311129[/ATTACH]
The color is a little off in this one.

Rosewood9 02-12-2012 07:03 AM

Beautiful, God Bless

mighty 02-12-2012 07:06 AM

So sorry to hear about the passing of your brother. How wonderful you have someone to give this beautiful quilt to who will love it!!!

luvstoquilt 02-12-2012 07:12 AM

That is lovely. What a great feeling for Darien and I know he must love it! I feel your pain. I lost my sister in Jan. and my brother a few years ago. Mike was just 55 and Dian was only 60. I am an only "child" again at 70! Not much fun now it is just my 94 yr old mother and me.

erstan947 02-12-2012 07:13 AM

A wonderful quilt made with loving hands. Your the best sister and aunt♥

rjwilder 02-12-2012 07:58 AM

Sorry to hear about your illness and your brother passing. What a wonderful quilt for your sister and Darien. They will think of Carson and remember the fun times with him everytime they wrap themselves in the quilt. Giving them the quilt is a wonderful gift all about family and the love you all have for each other.

sassey 02-12-2012 08:01 AM

What a lovely quilt I'm sure it was tough to work on with all the memories I pray it will give your nephew much comfort and support

valleyquiltermo 02-12-2012 08:07 AM

What a loving thing for you to do for Darian he will treasure this quilt for years to come.

Linnie 02-12-2012 08:08 AM

A touching story and a beautiful quilt

crafty pat 02-12-2012 08:08 AM

The quilt is beautiful. I am so sorry for all you have been through. May God bless you.

Stitchnripper 02-12-2012 08:36 AM

Your quilt is beautiful and I am sorry for the loss of your brother so recently (and your other siblings as well). I think the sentiment on the label is such a thoughtful idea. Sure to be appreciated.

Sewhappytoquilt 02-12-2012 08:39 AM

Your story brought tears to my eyes. How sad and wonderful...

rekrug 02-12-2012 08:51 AM

Beautiful. What a wonderful gift.

Joy.lynn 02-12-2012 08:59 AM

Sorry for your loss.

Tartan 02-12-2012 09:12 AM

Your quilt is a lovely tribute to your brother and a wonderful gift to ease your sister's suffering. I am sorry to hear of your loss and hopefully the New Year will be better.

twinkie 02-12-2012 10:53 AM


Originally Posted by luvstoquilt (Post 4967733)
That is lovely. What a great feeling for Darien and I know he must love it! I feel your pain. I lost my sister in Jan. and my brother a few years ago. Mike was just 55 and Dian was only 60. I am an only "child" again at 70! Not much fun now it is just my 94 yr old mother and me.

I can feel your pain. In 2011 I had a bad accident in February on the ice, lost my oldest sister March 1, went into the hospital March 11, went into the hospital again in November and lost my younger brother 11/30. He was only 66. This was almost as bad as when we lost both of our parents in 1986 and buried them just 16 days apart. They were only 68. But GOD always makes a way and finishing this quilt was a form of healing for me. Thanks for all the kind words.

joyce888 02-12-2012 11:11 AM

So sorry to hear of your brother's passing. I'm sure the quilt will be a comfort to your sister and her grandsons.

DMotyl 02-12-2012 11:54 AM

So sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. What a wonderful reason to complete the quilt. Darien is blessed to be able to wrap up in his uncle's love thanks to you. God Bless you and your family.

AnnieH 02-12-2012 11:56 AM

Love the quilt and the label. Darien will adore it.

Annie

KerryK 02-12-2012 12:03 PM

Beautiful quilt, beautiful sentiments. I'm sorry for your loss and hope you are doing better yourself.

BLAP 02-12-2012 12:39 PM

I think you did exactly the right thing with the quilt.

Monroe 02-12-2012 12:39 PM

I'm sorry you lost your brother. I'm trying to procrastinate less (less procrastinating about procrastinating), because anything can happen at any time. I'm sure your family will appreciate the quilty hugs very much.

Latrinka 02-12-2012 01:01 PM

Awe, so sorry to hear about your brother. Beautiful quilt, glad you decided to finish it and give it to your sister and great nephews! My youngest son's name is Carson! Know how difficult a loss can be, lost my DH to cancer 6 months ago today.

linda8450 02-12-2012 01:08 PM

I am so impressed that you could pick up and finish it so soon. It is so hard to lose our loved ones. I, too, am in AL, at the lowest point on the East side. Dothan, AL is the county seat for Houston Co. Are you anywhere close? Linda

alfosa421 02-12-2012 01:09 PM

So Sorry for your loss. How brave of you to go on to finish the quilt so that Darien would have a special reminder of Carson > Hope you are well recovered from your medical strife I know the healing for Carson will take ever so much more time. God Bless

twinkie 02-12-2012 05:37 PM


Originally Posted by linda8450 (Post 4968844)
I am so impressed that you could pick up and finish it so soon. It is so hard to lose our loved ones. I, too, am in AL, at the lowest point on the East side. Dothan, AL is the county seat for Houston Co. Are you anywhere close? Linda

I am in the Northern part of the state between Huntsville and Birmingham, a little town called Walnut Grove. I am very familiar with Dothan as my only daughter, Kimberly, lived in Graceville, Fl (Lower Alabama, lol) while her DH was attending Florida Baptist Theological College. Kimberly was Concert Mistress for Dothan Symphony Orchester and played with the Tri City Ensamble which was a stringed trio that performed in the surrounding areas. She is a concert violinist and also plays many other instruments. Thanks for the kind words about my posting. GOD Bless

sew1 02-12-2012 06:23 PM

What a lovelyl thing to do for Darien. It brought tears to my eyes to know you did this. So sorry that your DB passed. Lovely quilt that will be greatly cherished.

pacquilter 02-12-2012 08:59 PM

Thank you for sharing your story and your quilt...it brought tears to my eyes. Quilts are especially meaningful in these circumstances.

ewecansew 02-12-2012 10:42 PM

Many hugs to you and your family. It is so kind of you to finish the quilt for Darien and may he be blessed by knowing that his aunt and uncle loved him so much.

StarofMoonDancer 02-13-2012 03:43 AM

So sorry.
 

Originally Posted by twinkie (Post 4967662)
I was in the hospital for 8 days in the beginning of November for a severe infection and high temperature. Before I was able to go home, my younger brother, Carson, was hospitalized and had two major surgeries. He was slowly improving so once I was home, I decided to make him a large lap quilt for him to use during recovery. Sadly, I did not finish the quilt before he took a turn for the worse and passed away on November 30th. I just couldn't work in it anymore. After thinking about it, I decided to finish the quilt for my sister, Dianne, my only remaining sibling out of 8 children. 15 years ago, Dianne, who is now in her mid 60's, was given custody of her two grandsons who were under 3 years old. The youngest one, Darien, is autistic and it has been a rough road for her. Darien was devoted to my brother and took his passing very hard, so Dianne wanted to share it with Darien. On the label I told Darien that each time he wrapped up in the quilt it would be a great big hug from Uncle Carson, Nana and Aunt Donna. This is what I have done with the quilt. Thanks for listening and looking.

[ATTACH=CONFIG]311127[/ATTACH] [ATTACH=CONFIG]311128[/ATTACH] [ATTACH=CONFIG]311129[/ATTACH]
The color is a little off in this one.

I am so sorry on the death of your brother. I know the love that has gone into this beautiful quilt.
Your brother would be so happy for the sharing. Happy that you passed it on to Darien with all
the love to go with it.

pasolovers 02-13-2012 03:55 AM

The quilt is beautiful. I am so sorry for your loss and all you have been through. Your brother will love the quilt.

Iraxy 02-13-2012 03:58 AM

Wonderful sentiment. So sorry for your loss.

JaniceP 02-13-2012 04:10 AM

Hope you have completely recovered from your illness and your heart is healing from your loss. What a beautiful quilt and such a nice thing for you to do for your sister and Darian.

Lynette-Merlin 02-13-2012 04:23 AM

Wonderful - and I do admire your strength in going ahead and finishing it. Your brother would be too, I am sure. I lost my older brother last October, (he was 72) and my younger brother 25 years ago, aged only 38. It hurts so much. But I am sure your finishing the quilt was part of the healing process.

MaryAnnMc 02-13-2012 05:22 AM

It's a lovely quilt and a lovely gesture. Being the middle child of seven kids, I can imagine how hard this is for you and Dianne. God bless you both. Darien will love snuggling in his quilt.

Sewfine 02-13-2012 05:25 AM

So sorry to hear about your illness and your brother passing awya. That is a beautiful quilt and will be cherish and loved dearly.

#1piecemaker 02-13-2012 05:27 AM

So sorry to hear about your brother. I bet he would approve of you giving it to little Darien!!!

MaryL 02-13-2012 05:30 AM

A lovely tribute to your brother and sorry for your loss.

roadrunr 02-13-2012 05:38 AM

Sorry to hear about your brother, but glad to hear that you were able to give it to Darien as a rememberance of his uncle. By the way, you did a good job on the lap quilt!

kakels 02-13-2012 05:41 AM

That story brought tears to my eyes. What a wonderful tribute to your brother


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