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ogama 11-26-2011 10:36 AM

what would you do if your daughter came home and said you ex is getting married and ?
 
what would you do if your ex is getting mararied and she want you to help her make him a quilt for the wedding.

frauhahn 11-26-2011 10:40 AM

The best thing to do would be to help her-but make her do most of it herself. You'll look like a really great person in her eyes. And-you're doing it for her, not for him. I imagine it's hard to be put in this position, though.

mighty 11-26-2011 10:42 AM

Oh that is really a tough question!! I would love to quilt with my daughter but my ex is just that my EX and I would not make him anything!!!

angelaz 11-26-2011 10:43 AM

I agree, I would suggest you help her and treasure the time you get to spend teaching her something you love so much. No matter what your relationship is with your ex, he is still her daddy and she loves him. You did something right to allow her to hold onto that.

GmaJane 11-26-2011 10:54 AM

Boy, I bet they will REALLY enjoy sleeping under that. Make a lovely one and enjoy y our loving daughter.

Grace MooreLinker 11-26-2011 11:03 AM

I would just give her a pattern and say sew it,
I'm not that big on sharing with x's or new bees.

ckcowl 11-26-2011 11:05 AM

i would help her- it is her father- and she certainly has the right to make him something special if that's what she wants- it really has nothing to do with you- other than her need with some quilting assistance/guidance- think of it as a project you are helping your daughter with---what she does with it when she is finished is up to her.

GwynR 11-26-2011 11:05 AM


Originally Posted by angelaz (Post 4722321)
I agree, I would suggest you help her and treasure the time you get to spend teaching her something you love so much. No matter what your relationship is with your ex, he is still her daddy and she loves him. You did something right to allow her to hold onto that.

I agree 100%!!! Good job!

Grace MooreLinker 11-26-2011 11:06 AM


Originally Posted by mighty (Post 4722314)
Oh that is really a tough question!! I would love to quilt with my daughter but my ex is just that my EX and I would not make him anything!!!

I agree with you onthis one show her how, but that's it. He had his chance once???

walkswithwolves 11-26-2011 11:10 AM

I would help her. Because it didn't work out between your X and you should not, cause problems between you and your daughter. So hold your head high and say to yourself I can do this.


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