zozee

You're saying she toots in more ways than one?

ArchaicArcane

LOLOL! I think I just woke hubby up laughing!
Yes, she toots in all ways, except when they're silent and it takes you a few seconds to figure out why your eyes are watering!

zozee

Ewww, that's just nasty. Maybe you could inconspicuously write on her own supplies list "Gas X" ?

ArchaicArcane

*snort* That might just be worth trying to get there before she does. Somehow I never manage it and always have to sit behind her.

bearisgray

Do you think it would be any better upwind?

Must be some potent gas!

ArchaicArcane

This is a good point... it sort of wafts outward, doesn't it? Perhaps it's more the feeling of being placed in front of the cannon than actually being in the fire path... no word of a lie, the one day my eyes were watering!

eastermarie

I agree with all the comments made. Especially with JanieH on the cell phone issue. That's a big problem around here as well as not coming prepared, or late.

Tothill

I have to comment on this as a woman who has suffered from IBS for decades. I am careful about what I eat for my own sake. I work in an office environment and do not want to be known for being gassy or running to the loo every 15 minutes.

But when the IBS flares up and it can at a moments notice, I am embarrassed and try to leave the company of other people. If I spent my life worrying that I may or may not have the runs or gas, I would never leave the house.

So maybe be a bit more gentle in your criticism, I know it is not pleasant, but it is not like she has doused herself in strong perfume.

ArchaicArcane

Tothill, you're right, I was a little insensitive. I apologize for that. I will mention that the classes we've attended together included meals and that she avoided none of known trigger foods. I was on an elimination diet to see if I could "fix" some tummy issues a few years ago and the doctor suggested that IBS might be a possibility so I am familiar with the diet. It's possible that she's afflicted and doesn't know how to deal with it yet.


ETA: I should add - I would genuinely like to know how someone with this affliction would least be embarrassed though if they were approached. Ignoring the elephant in the room doesn't work well when others are bothered by the situation.

coopah

I like the instructor to guide me on the next step, but not to come and do it for me. It's also good if they are prepared and don't have to read the pattern directions to themselves several times. In other words, let me do what has been discussed and be prepared. In return, I'll be your best student ever!!