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    Old 10-21-2011, 07:06 AM
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    Originally Posted by DianD
    Suggestion: Call your friend, and tell her about this web board, then suggest that she share it with her (evil) cousin! After reading these posts from total strangers, Cousin It might be adjusted, just a little bit, in her attitude.
    Not a good idea to let her join our group. She would ruin it for the newbies you aren't sure of themselves yet. But....if we more experienced quilters could just get her alone.......
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    Old 10-21-2011, 07:10 AM
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    I do not know how you managed to be so nice and polite I know I would of lost it especially when she started in on your daughters clothes, Some people do not have any manners at all. Obliviously she was never taught to be polite and tactfull. I admire you for being able to keep your cool like that
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    Old 10-21-2011, 07:17 AM
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    CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP
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    Old 10-21-2011, 07:20 AM
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    Originally Posted by GlitzyMe
    CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP
    absolutely!

    :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:
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    Old 10-21-2011, 07:50 AM
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    I hope your friend's critical cousin doesn't keep her from enjoying quilting. She just needs to do what feels and looks right to her and never, ever show the cousin what she is working on.
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    Old 10-21-2011, 07:56 AM
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    Originally Posted by watson's mom
    Originally Posted by DianD
    Suggestion: Call your friend, and tell her about this web board, then suggest that she share it with her (evil) cousin! After reading these posts from total strangers, Cousin It might be adjusted, just a little bit, in her attitude.
    Not a good idea to let her join our group. She would ruin it for the newbies you aren't sure of themselves yet. But....if we more experienced quilters could just get her alone.......
    I took the invite to be for Friend NOT Cousin
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    Old 10-21-2011, 08:04 AM
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    my hubby has a sign in his office:

    "ignorance can be cured, but stupid goes clear to the bone."

    it's too bad that some folks never learn to just admire, and not to criticize. it might have been different if the "cousin" was an established fabric artist in her own right--but i suspect that if a fabric expert did approach you, they would do so with finesse and admiration of your skills, not as the "quilt police".

    sounds like you should get a medal for good behavior under undue pressure!
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    Old 10-21-2011, 08:10 AM
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    You are a good and gracious woman. I'll never be able to understand what makes people act like your friend's cousin. Do you suppose they feel more important if they are making other people upset or unhappy?
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    Old 10-21-2011, 08:16 AM
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    Originally Posted by earthwalker
    Empty vessels make the most noise....I admire your tact and restraint, bravo:)
    YES, :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: Congratulations on your restraint, as much as I would love to believe that I am a good person, I do not believe I would of been so gracious. She might of found herself skidding down the driveway on her way out!
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    Old 10-21-2011, 08:30 AM
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    Reminds me of my DIL who told me I didn't know anything about raising children. (After I raised 3 wonderful successful adult children and she has been a parent for only 8 years.)

    There is no explaining rude, mean, hateful people.
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