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Old 12-08-2011, 04:51 PM
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Something that was said about giving as a gift something that you already owned makes me ask this question. As many of us are getting older, do you think it is all right to give some of our nicer things, some of our collectable china or crystal things for instance, to family members as a Christmas gift, or just let them wait until we die to get them?
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Old 12-08-2011, 04:51 PM
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She should have invited you to a Book club with her family and told you she would buy you diner.
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Old 12-08-2011, 07:18 PM
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Originally Posted by TanyaL View Post
Something that was said about giving as a gift something that you already owned makes me ask this question. As many of us are getting older, do you think it is all right to give some of our nicer things, some of our collectable china or crystal things for instance, to family members as a Christmas gift, or just let them wait until we die to get them?
I would feel honored if one of my relatives gave me an object out of love - valuable or not. I would also cherish any story that went with the object. My aunt gave me a cake plate that she used to serve her fabulous pineapple coconut cake. Everytime I look at or use that plate I have fond memories of her - she lives on in my heart. I hope your relatives will feel the same when you share your valued mementos.
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Old 12-08-2011, 07:24 PM
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Originally Posted by BellaBoo View Post
I have started reading the book and when I done I'll give it back to her and say I'm finished reading the book, you may know someone that didn't get a chance to read it before you gave it to me. Yeah, I'm that type of person! LOL
I'm that kind of person also, go for it. ROFLMAO
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Old 12-08-2011, 07:34 PM
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It's interesting that she volunteered that information. Obviously she did not think anything wrong with what she had done. We all have our own viewpoints. Kinda makes you wonder.....
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Old 12-08-2011, 08:07 PM
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That is very Tacky!!!
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Old 12-08-2011, 08:49 PM
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I think it was tacky.
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Old 12-09-2011, 02:01 AM
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They live amongst us. You just have to know that their cultural education was sadly lacking, and feel sorry for them.
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Old 12-09-2011, 03:29 AM
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She could have, at the very least, removed the dust jacket before it was read by her entire family. Some people's kids. I swear!
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Old 12-09-2011, 03:33 AM
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Not the most appropriate thing, but hopefully it won't spoil your enjoyment of the book. Not something I would do.
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