Have you ever felt ignored?
#51
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: California
Posts: 3,502
Originally Posted by Lisanne
Originally Posted by b.zang
I have noticed that some people keep their threads near the top of recent topics by responding every time someone adds to their post.
#52
I am sorry that you or anyone else here has ever felt slighted (((HUGS)))
In the last 4 months, the volume of topics has quadrupled at times here :D:D:D Between Thanksgiving and New Years I was kinda laid up and spent more time here on the board than normal... I could literally spend 5-6 hours reading ALL of the new threads and keeping up with the ongoing ones...and still miss some things :wink:
I really don't think anyone is intentionally ignoring anyone, it just gets hard to keep up some times :D:D:D
As much as we would all love to read and respond back to everyone, it just isn't always possible.
If I have ever done this, please believe that it was never an intentional slight, it was just an oversight.
Another thought is this...when I respond to others who reply to my topic, I read what has been answered and then type my responses, sometimes I wonder in doing this, we forget someone's reply? I don't always hit quote reply to answer, because sometimes that would mean doing this 20+ times, so many of us try to answer all/most in one response.
In the last 4 months, the volume of topics has quadrupled at times here :D:D:D Between Thanksgiving and New Years I was kinda laid up and spent more time here on the board than normal... I could literally spend 5-6 hours reading ALL of the new threads and keeping up with the ongoing ones...and still miss some things :wink:
I really don't think anyone is intentionally ignoring anyone, it just gets hard to keep up some times :D:D:D
As much as we would all love to read and respond back to everyone, it just isn't always possible.
If I have ever done this, please believe that it was never an intentional slight, it was just an oversight.
Another thought is this...when I respond to others who reply to my topic, I read what has been answered and then type my responses, sometimes I wonder in doing this, we forget someone's reply? I don't always hit quote reply to answer, because sometimes that would mean doing this 20+ times, so many of us try to answer all/most in one response.
#56
Originally Posted by Lisanne
However, when I start a thread, I try to acknowledge every reply. Then I worry that I'm overdoing it and should back off and let people talk to each other without me commenting on every post.
Some threads very quickly run to several pages and I try to at least skip read every one before asking a question, in case it's already been discussed but sometimes it's just not possible. We have so many members now and are such an active board, I guess we're victims of our own success! :-D
#57
K3n, no need to apologize for editing me. I do that, too. It makes it easier to read and follow for everyone when you only keep the bit you're replying to.
And I'm glad I'm not alone in not always knowing when to respond and when I'm responding too much.
And I'm glad I'm not alone in not always knowing when to respond and when I'm responding too much.
#58
Originally Posted by Lisanne
K3n, no need to apologize for editing me. I do that, too. It makes it easier to read and follow for everyone when you only keep the bit you're replying to.
And I'm glad I'm not alone in not always knowing when to respond and when I'm responding too much.
And I'm glad I'm not alone in not always knowing when to respond and when I'm responding too much.
#59
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Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: From Baltimore, currently live in Charlotte, NC
Posts: 501
I've felt that way before, like when I posted my first quilt. Some people said things, but then I'd see others post their first quilt and they had pages and pages of comments. I think it has to do with day of the week and time of day you post, too.
#60
i'm sorry, but i'm confused by the question. none of your posts have been ignored. you've gotten at least a few replies to each one. you've receive many replies to most. you also have thousands of views. no few than 107 ... one topic was viewed 7700 times and got 658 responses!
i'm a moderator and i don't get that kind of action. :shock:
maybe i should be jealous.
:lol:
i'm a moderator and i don't get that kind of action. :shock:
maybe i should be jealous.
:lol:
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