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#11
Lea, He did not want to hurt ur feelings, asking u to fix food at ur old job. He may have made a bad decision, but don't be to mad....sometimes men have trouble figuring us out. ps don't know about ur food, but u sure do fine with ur quilting :) Beautiful job with the pink and white.
#12
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Maybe he thought it would be rubbing salt in the wound to ask you to make food for your ex-coworkers? I honestly don't understand why you are so upset. To me this sounds like a huge case of misunderstanding. Can't you just flat out ask him why he had someone else make the food for him?
#13
Originally Posted by leonajo
Lea, He did not want to hurt ur feelings, asking u to fix food at ur old job. He may have made a bad decision, but don't be to mad....sometimes men have trouble figuring us out. ps don't know about ur food, but u sure do fine with ur quilting :) Beautiful job with the pink and white.
#14
Originally Posted by Prism99
Maybe he thought it would be rubbing salt in the wound to ask you to make food for your ex-coworkers? I honestly don't understand why you are so upset. To me this sounds like a huge case of misunderstanding. Can't you just flat out ask him why he had someone else make the food for him?
#15
Originally Posted by Prism99
Maybe he thought it would be rubbing salt in the wound to ask you to make food for your ex-coworkers? I honestly don't understand why you are so upset. To me this sounds like a huge case of misunderstanding. Can't you just flat out ask him why he had someone else make the food for him?
#16
Originally Posted by leatheflea
Originally Posted by Prism99
Maybe he thought it would be rubbing salt in the wound to ask you to make food for your ex-coworkers? I honestly don't understand why you are so upset. To me this sounds like a huge case of misunderstanding. Can't you just flat out ask him why he had someone else make the food for him?
#18
Originally Posted by theoldgraymare
Don't let it keep eating at you. That will just make it worse. Ask him.
#19
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Ohio
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Originally Posted by Prism99
Maybe he thought it would be rubbing salt in the wound to ask you to make food for your ex-coworkers? I honestly don't understand why you are so upset. To me this sounds like a huge case of misunderstanding. Can't you just flat out ask him why he had someone else make the food for him?
#20
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Join Date: Sep 2009
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Posts: 2,326
Originally Posted by leatheflea
My dh and I worked together for 5 years at the same company. i recently was let go, he still works there. they are having a pitchin at work. He had his friends wife make him things to take to work. I'm so hurt. He could have at least hid it from me.
Tell him, you know about the "pitch in" and ask him why he didn't ask you to make something for him to bring. I wouldn't be surprised if he tells you that he was trying to protect your feelings.
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