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Old 08-31-2010, 02:58 PM
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That is just awful that that happened to you. I hate things like that. And you are right they do come is all shapes and sizes. I had taken classes at a local quilt shop and I couldn't believe the filthy mouths on some of those women. There is no reason for any kind of rudeness. If those women are on this list I hope they apologize to you.
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Old 08-31-2010, 03:03 PM
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I once went to a quilt show in my local area and every one I meet wanted me to join their guild. I started looking at the quilts they had up to show. And 2 of the top ladies came around and was telling this and this. I was nice and said yes mam I know I like to quilt too. Both began to be very rude to me. They did not ask me did I know or did I have a question. I was ask later on this board why I did not go to a guild meeting with her. I told her why and that is the last time I heard from her also. Her is my thought if you want my money for your guild and to help you do and pay for something. Don't treat me nor talk to me like trash.
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Old 08-31-2010, 03:23 PM
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sorry that happened to you but remember there are all kinds of people out there i have noticed that the majority of quilters that i have met are very nice !! maybe cause i have met most of them on here !
i love your little quoate about hoping there machine eats there quilts that was funny i had to laugh
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Old 08-31-2010, 03:27 PM
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Originally Posted by moonwolf23
Originally Posted by quilterguy27
Originally Posted by bearisgray
Know what I think is really pathetic?

That we get so upset about something like this! Was there any bodily harm done to anyone? Did anyone suffer any property damage?

Are we always considerate as customers? Have we never, ever made an impatient comment about someone else in a public place?

Read about what happened to trupeach's daughter (think it was her - rock dropped/thrown through a windshield)Where does it say that the tongue is sharper than a 2 edged sword??

My nephew was just about killed when a bunch of thugs ganged up on him and kicked him in the head until he was unconscious. Reason? He got out of his pickup and threw it back at them after they threw something at his pickup! (this was at a gas station at 1:15 am)
I am so sorry for your nephew and trupeach's daughter. However, that saying about sticks and stones and words can never hurt you is total BS! Look at all those kids lately that have committed suicide because of all the harsh words thrown their way. I know all about that personally! I was picked on, teased, and beat up constantly as a kid. Fortunately I never committed suicide, not that I didn't think about it, but I just never followed thru with it. The thing is, it's stuck with me all these years and sometimes still bothers me. Words can be like a double edged sword, very hurtful. I think they scar worse than physical wounds. Physical wounds you can see the scars from, mental, psychological and emotional scars can't be seen by the naked eye. But they are, nevertheless, there and just as bad, if not worse.!
No, the sticks and stones thing is true. The thing is, the words can only have power over you if you let them. The only one in charge of whether your feelings are hurt is you.

I think that is something we as a society have gotten away from. Teaching our kids how to deal with people who can hurt us, responsibly or even in a strong manner.
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Old 08-31-2010, 03:29 PM
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Quilterguy, you're more beautiful than I thought you were - have followed many of your messages on the board, and appreciate your comment today. I'm glad you have learned to live so capably with your, may I say, partial disability.
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Old 08-31-2010, 03:30 PM
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My little hillbilly Grandma always told me that when
people try to walk all over you, don't just lie down and
let them. Reach up and bite them in the azzzzzz.

Hehehehe
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Old 08-31-2010, 03:33 PM
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That's telling them, Mariners fan! I'm a gramma, but I dress casually complete with my diabetic tennies and if that is not good enough, too bad! I hope they didn't ruin your trip to the quilt exhibit.

Originally Posted by momski
I went to the Milwaukee Art Museum to see the American Quilt exhibits and was confronted with some really rude quilters who treated me like a idiot. I won't go into specifics, I just wanted to remind everyone that quilters come in all shapes, sizes and ages. Don't assume someone doesn't know what they are talking about just because they don't look like your traditional quilter.

And if you are a lady in your 50's, brown hair, white shirt w/ print who was visiting the museum today with 2 other ladies of the same age who snickered at a young mom wearing a Mariners shirt.... I hope your sewing machine eats every last one of your quilts!
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Old 08-31-2010, 03:48 PM
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Originally Posted by bearisgray
Know what I think is really pathetic?

That we get so upset about something like this! Was there any bodily harm done to anyone? Did anyone suffer any property damage?

Are we always considerate as customers? Have we never, ever made an impatient comment about someone else in a public place?

Read about what happened to trupeach's daughter (think it was her - rock dropped/thrown through a windshield)

My nephew was just about killed when a bunch of thugs ganged up on him and kicked him in the head until he was unconscious. Reason? He got out of his pickup and threw it back at them after they threw something at his pickup! (this was at a gas station at 1:15 am)
Yes ladies, lets think about our own selves. I worked in a fabric store and nice as quilters are I cannot tell you how many were on their cell phones just chatting away while I was trying to help you cut your fabric.Or at the register. I understand multi-tasking but how rude to make people wait while you chat instead of taking care of business. I think the cell phone is the downfall of common etiquette. And we are not just talking about teenagers!!
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Old 08-31-2010, 03:49 PM
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These gals, I won't call them quilters until I see their work, should be ashamed for even calling themselves quilters.
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Old 08-31-2010, 03:59 PM
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I love your answer! That's the first time I've heard about a rude quilter-that's awful! My students and I always comment about how pleasant fellow quilters are-always willing to share a technique or a word of praise or encouragement. shame on her!
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