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Old 08-15-2011, 11:26 AM
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Its a gorgous blanket. Maybe she didnt realize it was hand made with love.
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Old 08-15-2011, 11:46 AM
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Very pretty. There is no excuse for being rude or stupid.
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Old 08-15-2011, 11:59 AM
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I am so sorry about your dissappointment. I know exactly how you feel. It has happened more than once for me. I always make baby quilts for showers and I am considering not going to the next shower so I am not dissappointed when they open the gift. I will still make the quilts, but when you work so hard on something to have the mother-to-be say "another blanket" it is very discouraging. It is also embarrassing when you over hear someone say "She can afford to buy something nice, why only a blanket?"
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Old 08-15-2011, 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Digitizingqueen
I friend of mine had something similar happen until someone told the receiver it was a handcrafted quilt she was thank profusely a few months later - you have to be of the mind set to give it as it is intended if they don't get it well don't give them another one - some people don't have any comprehension of what our time is worth or what it takes to make a quilt....- just hope they use it
I so totally agree with this comment - I labored intensely to make a quilt for my mother last Christmas, and she was usually my biggest cheerleader for anything I made, so it really surprised and saddened me when she didn't make a huge fuss over it like I kind of was looking forward to. I don't know if she was overwhelmed by it or if she was being as gracious as she could by accepting a crafted item that really wasn't her style...I put a lot of hard work into it including my first foray into the evil world of paper piecing and learned a lot from it, so all wasn't lost, but still....

Your quilt is yummy lovely wonderful and hopefully the recipient will come to appreciate it and grow up a bit in the process...
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Old 08-15-2011, 12:12 PM
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It's a beautiful quilt.
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Old 08-15-2011, 12:15 PM
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I always feel people before I make something for them. Try to figure out what they like and if they like home made items. I've had the same expereince and don't like it so I'm very careful now.
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Old 08-15-2011, 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted by bearisgray
How much attention did the mom-to-be pay to the other gifts?

If there is a large number, sometimes the person just opens stuff quickly and takes a more careful look later.
This was my thought too. And sometimes they just are not good at expressing their feelings in front of a group of people. I made one for a shower this weekend and it was the last gift opened-there were 70 people there. Although she said she loved it I know she was exhausted from standing up there for over an hour opening gifts and saying "AW cute" and "thank you" over and over again. Maybe that was true of your mommy-to-be. I hope so.
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Old 08-15-2011, 12:50 PM
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Originally Posted by bearisgray
How much attention did the mom-to-be pay to the other gifts?

If there is a large number, sometimes the person just opens stuff quickly and takes a more careful look later.
That was the thought that popped into my head too. I'm sure your quilt will be appreciated when it gets used every day. That's the true test.
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Old 08-15-2011, 01:03 PM
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I had pretty much the same thing happen. I gave the expectant
mother a baby quilt for the shower. When she opened it, she
said she didn't need any more blankets that her mother crochet
her some. This is a girl going to college. What happened to
appreciation and good manners?
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Old 08-15-2011, 01:11 PM
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very pretty
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