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    Old 02-19-2011, 09:05 AM
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    My kids were obnoxious and know it all in their teens, respectful in their 20's (but still thought mom & dad were "old"); delightful in their thirties, but really fun to be around in their 40's now that one has been through the teen years times three and the other one is living with teenagers.
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    Old 02-19-2011, 09:39 AM
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    I've found that if they want to be an "adult" they need to pay the way... the attitude changes back quickly!
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    Old 02-19-2011, 09:45 AM
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    My son just turned 18 this week, so I don't have the answer.
    But when you find out let me know, hee, hee.
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    Old 02-19-2011, 09:47 AM
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    Parents have terminal "dumbs" until the kids have children of their own.
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    Old 02-19-2011, 10:19 AM
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    My DH and I are so lucky - one child now 35 who managed to stay out of trouble, graduate from college, get a professional job (forecast meteorologist for an energy company). Would like to see him find someone to share his life with, but hasn't happened yet.
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    Old 02-19-2011, 10:39 AM
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    I was told when my kids were little that you don't know if you've done a good job raising them until they are 32. So you have a few years to put up with them. Sorry. But they do get better. Mine are 36 and 40 and both have become wonderful people. LOL
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    Old 02-19-2011, 11:06 AM
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    my son when he turned 14, he'll be 21 next thursday, and he's getting better, he even bought me a beautiful card and heart shaped box of vandy for valentine's day. he's a great kid, but has a lot on his shoulders right now, as he always has, so i give him a lot of slack.
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    Old 02-19-2011, 11:44 AM
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    I definitely agree with 'running1'. Truer words were never spoken. Mark Twain was right on the money.
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    Old 02-19-2011, 11:54 AM
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    I think it all depends on the child. I have a 41yo DS who is a sweetheart,a 39yo DD who is still a horror show. None of her siblings speak to her, and she barely speaks to me. Then we have another DD who is 33 and she is the sweetest most thoughtful one of the bunch. The last is 15 so the jury is still out on him. Just love them and hope for the best.
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    Old 02-19-2011, 12:06 PM
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    one day my older daughter was yelling at her then step sons and all i heard was OMG my husband ran to her to see what was wrong and all she said was i am sounding like my dad lolol that was the turning point as we saw it.... poetic justic finally
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