BF wants to get married but I want to run...need advice
#51
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in my experience the french have never been in a hurry to do much, but i certainly wish you godspeed!
be sure to be designated the one to make medical decisions. it can be heartbreaking to have others take over in a way which hans would not want..
also be sure to be named in his will :mrgreen: :mrgreen:. it would be heartbreaking to hans for others to leave you out :mrgreen: .
be sure to be designated the one to make medical decisions. it can be heartbreaking to have others take over in a way which hans would not want..
also be sure to be named in his will :mrgreen: :mrgreen:. it would be heartbreaking to hans for others to leave you out :mrgreen: .
#53
Originally Posted by butterflywing
in my experience the french have never been in a hurry to do much, but i certainly wish you godspeed!
be sure to be designated the one to make medical decisions. it can be heartbreaking to have others take over in a way which hans would not want..
also be sure to be named in his will :mrgreen: :mrgreen:. it would be heartbreaking to hans for others to leave you out :mrgreen: .
be sure to be designated the one to make medical decisions. it can be heartbreaking to have others take over in a way which hans would not want..
also be sure to be named in his will :mrgreen: :mrgreen:. it would be heartbreaking to hans for others to leave you out :mrgreen: .
K x
#54
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when the time is right, he can always sell you half. for a pittance, of course. before the fact. he would have to trust that you would be fair to his children.
or arrange that legally.
can you tell that among my many jobs i worked for an attorney part-time while my kids were small? i did dressmaking at home in the evenings for professional women.
to tell the truth, i could never sit still and do nothing while the kids were in school, and the housework didn't take that long. i got out while they were gone, did the chores after school (they walked), and sewed and quilted in the evenings while watching tv with dh. when i had an app't with a customer, i used a different room for that. my 12-14 regulars + drop-ins almost paid for my dd's college education. in a nyc suburb.
dh thought i was nuts. not so. just housewife bored.
or arrange that legally.
can you tell that among my many jobs i worked for an attorney part-time while my kids were small? i did dressmaking at home in the evenings for professional women.
to tell the truth, i could never sit still and do nothing while the kids were in school, and the housework didn't take that long. i got out while they were gone, did the chores after school (they walked), and sewed and quilted in the evenings while watching tv with dh. when i had an app't with a customer, i used a different room for that. my 12-14 regulars + drop-ins almost paid for my dd's college education. in a nyc suburb.
dh thought i was nuts. not so. just housewife bored.
#55
Originally Posted by butterflywing
when the time is right, he can always sell you half. for a pittance, of course. before the fact. he would have to trust that you would be fair to his children.
or arrange that legally.
or arrange that legally.
K x
#57
Originally Posted by butterflywing
so buy it for half with his money LOL!
camper sounds good, too. see the world and let the kids earn their own.
camper sounds good, too. see the world and let the kids earn their own.
K x
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