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Its 4 a.m. and the baby won't sleep!

Its 4 a.m. and the baby won't sleep!

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Old 01-12-2012, 08:48 AM
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Originally Posted by willferg View Post
I remember that desperate feeling when you just want sleep, for both of you! With my first baby, she was awake for hours around 2:00 and I finally called my mom in tears, I was just at my wit's end and didn't know what to do (having tried everything). My sisters got on me for it, said I shouldn't scare our mom by calling in the middle of the night. But -- I needed my mom, because that's what moms are for. And now you are a mom...it's a great job!
Lol maybe next time call your sisters instead! I wouldn't worry about it, your mom was probably only worried for the 8 seconds it took for you to tell her what the problem was, and I bet if you asked her, she'd tell you she was glad you reached out to her for help.

I remember feeling annoyed when my first son wouldn't sleep, but it was almost 7 years until I had my second son, and I knew good and well to treasure those moments when we were together in that quiet, sleeping house. It helped that I was a stay-home mom by then, too.
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Old 01-12-2012, 10:46 AM
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It is true, they do grow up fast. I really shouldn't complain, he is a really good baby most of the time. He is having a rough go of teething, dealing with a nasty diaper rash outbreak, and trying to walk all at the same time. That would be enough to disrupt anyone's sleep!

I have always heeded people when they told me to cherish the moments. I know that when my sons are grown, I will have many memories of our shared moments, the good ones and the frustrating ones, to reflect on and I will know that I was as present as possible for each of them. And when they call ME in the middle of the night when their kids won't sleep, I will have a good laugh!!!

Thanks for letting me blow off my steam and for the encouraging words!
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Old 01-12-2012, 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted by raptureready View Post
I have 4 stepchildren, a 12 yr old of my own, 12 granchildren and 4 great grandchildren. Let me check the local ads for puppies and I'll trade. I always wanted a maximum of 12 and a minimum of 8 but when you don't get started being able to conceive and carry until 45, having a large family isn't feasible.

Seriously though, I wish I lived closer, I'd take him for a few days so that you could get some sleep.
I can relate to this. We had our kids later too and I have often told my husband that I wish we had started trying sooner so we could have had more. If you were closer, I'd take you up on that offer and have a nice long nap!
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Old 01-12-2012, 02:12 PM
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I remember those nights of walking the floors because my daughter had colic for the first 3 months so sleep was a luxury when it came, but then I had a toddler that was 2 so again so sleep. No wonder my hubby says I'm nocturnal I can get by on next to no sleep.
When the baby is asleep with the face of an angel you will forget all about the crying and walking, I don't have any puppies but I can loan you a boxer that think's he's a lap dog and crying babies don't bother him at all. Wish I lived closer I'd offer to walk the floor so you can sleep
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Old 01-13-2012, 06:15 AM
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Sending you positive thoughts for baby taking a very long nap today so you can get some well needed sleep. The early months are an endurance test as I remember it. Hang in there.
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Old 01-13-2012, 06:29 AM
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LOL sometimes I used to wish I could trade my kids for a puppy ! but they grew up to be healthy happy adults- with 3 beautiful grands from one DD. I think the years under 5 are the best in life .. after 5 they go to school and take on their friends habits and bring em home!LOL leave those habits at school!LOL and come home my little baby !LOL
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Old 01-13-2012, 07:36 AM
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I understand. Went through it also.
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Old 01-13-2012, 08:18 AM
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my uncle did trade my mother for a puppy because he already had 4 sisters........that has been almost 100 years ago but no one in the family ever forgets
not sure who was more upset my grandmother or the lady that suddenly had a 2 week old in her kitchen
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Old 01-13-2012, 08:36 AM
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Originally Posted by SunlitenSmiles View Post
my uncle did trade my mother for a puppy because he already had 4 sisters........that has been almost 100 years ago but no one in the family ever forgets
not sure who was more upset my grandmother or the lady that suddenly had a 2 week old in her kitchen
That is to funny!!!!!!
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I always used Desitin for baby's bottom. I swear you could waterproof a boat with that stuff. A very wise woman once told me, you sleep when baby sleeps no matter what else needs doing. (my mother)
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