Should I be santa
#21
Lea,
Good for you!! I am proud of you. You stood your ground. I'm sure your son will have a nice Christmas even if he gets nothing from his Dad. He will know that you thought of him and love him. I realized on my own how my dad was years ago....it took a while but I figured it out. My Mom and StepDad never ever said anything bad about him.........he did it all himself. LOL
I hope you and your son have a very Merry Christmas.
:)
Angie
Good for you!! I am proud of you. You stood your ground. I'm sure your son will have a nice Christmas even if he gets nothing from his Dad. He will know that you thought of him and love him. I realized on my own how my dad was years ago....it took a while but I figured it out. My Mom and StepDad never ever said anything bad about him.........he did it all himself. LOL
I hope you and your son have a very Merry Christmas.
:)
Angie
#22
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Join Date: Oct 2010
Posts: 1,341
Originally Posted by leatheflea
Well I went and got my son for the week, didnt give ex any money. I have helped him in the past with money for groceries, A long distance card so his wife could call her kids. He's not mine to take care of anymore. My son will have a good christmas at my house, I cant cure his dad I tried for years, hopeless case. He has found a job though my son says! Yeah for him! And my pocket. Thanks for all your thoughts, you gals are great!
High fives to you!!!!!! :thumbup:
#23
I am among the belief that Christmas is not about expensive gifts. I think it has gotten so out of hand for some, yes we buy are boys gifts and different things thru out the year.
But a gift can be a pair of gloves,a favorite candy bar stash,a pair of earphones, a needed pair of pants. No your Ex may not be able to do expensive but their are many non-expensive choices.
One of my boys (14) wants and engine(he's building a go-cart- pretty much from scraps) well you know what he's not going to get one for Christmas and will need to save for it whether he wants new or used or bartar for one.Besides it will give me time to get use to the whole idea of a motor.hee hee Anyways I don't mean to offend anyone I just wanted to give some suggestions. Best Wishes..
I just read the recent post. GOOD JOB! You will have a Wonderful Time and enjoy your time with your son.
But a gift can be a pair of gloves,a favorite candy bar stash,a pair of earphones, a needed pair of pants. No your Ex may not be able to do expensive but their are many non-expensive choices.
One of my boys (14) wants and engine(he's building a go-cart- pretty much from scraps) well you know what he's not going to get one for Christmas and will need to save for it whether he wants new or used or bartar for one.Besides it will give me time to get use to the whole idea of a motor.hee hee Anyways I don't mean to offend anyone I just wanted to give some suggestions. Best Wishes..
I just read the recent post. GOOD JOB! You will have a Wonderful Time and enjoy your time with your son.
#27
Originally Posted by leatheflea
My ex husband has been out of work for almost 3 years. He informed my youngest son (which lives with him) that he would not be able to buy christmas for him and his step brother. My heart sank for both my ex and my son. My heart says take money out of my savings and give it to my ex without my son knowing, but my head says hes a jerk dont you dare he could have had a job years ago had he looked for one. I pay child support to my ex its not court odered because I have custody, its just my sons decision to live there. So its not like he doesnt have income, he has a working wife and was drawing unemployment. Sometimes I hate having a heart.
#29
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Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Once an Iowan, always an Iowan, but now suburban Chicagoland
Posts: 508
Originally Posted by clem55
Originally Posted by leatheflea
Clem55 you said quilt trip insead of guilt trip, too funny!
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