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What is tradition for FOG on wedding day??

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Old 07-31-2011, 10:11 AM
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If that is what son wants, let him foot the bill!
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Old 07-31-2011, 10:18 AM
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It's the bride and groom's wedding - I don't think others should make issues with their plans. Start putting away some $$ for the rental and enjoy their special day!
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Old 07-31-2011, 10:23 AM
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Originally Posted by amma
Maybe gently remind your DS that you just cannot afford this expense? If he still feels it is necessary, then he can pay for the rental :D:D:D
This makes a lot of sense! Don't go into debt for the wedding - it's only 1 day. And that's not important - it's all the days AFTER the wedding that are important!! :-D
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Old 07-31-2011, 10:27 AM
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When I got married 32 years ago, my father said he wasn't going to wear a tux... i said ok, but would you wear a navy blue suit? He was in agreement but in the end, he wore a navy tux. My FIL couldn't afford a tux and he wore his suit... pics looked just fine...
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this is not about the FOG and a tuxedo, but my grd daughter is to be married on Aug. 19, at home plate of our White Caps ball field., my question is this..... not being a dress person, I am planning to wear a beautiful lace top with new white slacks.... her only request was NO JEANS! sounds good to me !!
sound ok to you gals?
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Old 07-31-2011, 03:54 PM
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Originally Posted by kaykwilts
We have another wedding coming up in August..the second son to marry this year. Our son is insisting his Dad rent a tux...a cost we really cannot afford. Dad has a nice soft black suit....think that will be ok? What is the traditional wear for the FOG? You'd think that with this being the fifth child to marry, we'd have this all figured out, but this is the first son to marry in a traditional ceremony in a church building. Any feedback would be appreciated....
IMHO people get too caught up in making their weddings some huge extravaganza that has to be perfect. They spend thousands of dollars and stress out over little things when the stress should be on celebrating with loved ones. I never saw the point of going into debt for a wedding. I'd tell DS that if he wanted DH in a tux which is not in the budget for you, that he could pony up the money.
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Old 07-31-2011, 04:43 PM
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I think if Dad is going to be a member of the wedding party and all the wedding party men are wearing tuxes, he ought to match (and maybe your son should pick up the tab). Otherwise, nice suit unless it's very informal.
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Old 07-31-2011, 04:45 PM
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Originally Posted by amma
Maybe gently remind your DS that you just cannot afford this expense? If he still feels it is necessary, then he can pay for the rental :D:D:D

I totally agree! He is not father of the bride and if your son wants him in a tux let him pay for it...
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Old 07-31-2011, 05:25 PM
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Originally Posted by amma
Maybe gently remind your DS that you just cannot afford this expense? If he still feels it is necessary, then he can pay for the rental :D:D:D
I agree. DS should understand ...
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To lighten this up a little...for first son's wedding, DH wore a powder blue tux with blue ruffled shirt and navy bow tie, plus medium blue patent leather shoes! We were able to afford it, thank goodness, but he looked somewhat like a pimp!
Second son was easier, Navy whites with sword and medals. The 1st wedding was in the 70's and didn't last. The 2nd was 10 years later and is nearing 25 years!
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