I am amazed but I shouldn't be!
#42
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Originally Posted by redmadder
My DD has actually pieced a couple of tops, she does a good job but rarely makes time to work on her ideas.
I hemmed 6 pair of jeans for her friend's daughter. Charged just a little cause I know they are having a hard time.
Friend is back next week with a sackful of blouses and pants she wants altered. After a week, I gave them back, said there was no time, gently hinted this was not what I do.
DD asks me why do I consider this work beneath me. And I'm trying my hardest to get along with DD.
I hemmed 6 pair of jeans for her friend's daughter. Charged just a little cause I know they are having a hard time.
Friend is back next week with a sackful of blouses and pants she wants altered. After a week, I gave them back, said there was no time, gently hinted this was not what I do.
DD asks me why do I consider this work beneath me. And I'm trying my hardest to get along with DD.
#43
Originally Posted by SparkMonkey
I deal with a lot of this attitude from others regarding my knitting; they see me wear things I've knitted, and they immediately ask for a hat or a scarf or even a sweater. They have no idea that there are over ten thousand stitches in a single pair of socks. My standard answer is always "No, I won't knit [item] for you, but I can teach you to knit it yourself!" In eight years, I've had no takers. :roll:
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#44
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I have offered to help the indivdual make what they want..........they can come to my house on Tuesday at 6:30 P.M. and you know what? .........................VOILA.............problem solved...............it that naughty or what? calla
But my neighbor was naughter than I, some relative of hers, ..........always, short notice, shorten jeans ..........1-2 or 3 pairs................emergency.........needed yesterday...........hardly a thank you when finished...........and never a token, not even a bag of M & M's.................well the last pair she shortened she had different lengths in the legs.......taa daa..............problem solved she got canned...........hee hee
Oh, one last thing perhaps, to a non sewer or crafter we shouldn't say............. " oh it was easy".............
But my neighbor was naughter than I, some relative of hers, ..........always, short notice, shorten jeans ..........1-2 or 3 pairs................emergency.........needed yesterday...........hardly a thank you when finished...........and never a token, not even a bag of M & M's.................well the last pair she shortened she had different lengths in the legs.......taa daa..............problem solved she got canned...........hee hee
Oh, one last thing perhaps, to a non sewer or crafter we shouldn't say............. " oh it was easy".............
#45
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1. Dear sister needs her wedding dress shortened at the shoulders. She thinks 10 minutes. I showed she what she would get for 10 minutes. Shes like "that would look terible" Took nearly 2 hours, not including fitting time. After all, how many times is your sister going to have a thrid wedding?
2. One af my MANY dear nieces calls up: Do I have a quilt finished I could let her have for a prayer quilt for her church? So finished a quilt top for her. What do I want for it? I bit my lip and said $30.00 (about pays for the thread) because it was a church after all.
3. Another dear niece says can I make my 3 year old great nniece a bag from "horsie" fabric? I will get the fabric for you. Oh oh n o I will get the fabric. Four hours of sewing later I have a bag to give her. I did want to ex periment with my own pattern and after all she is an adorable 3 year old.
4. Another niece is going to be in a wedding and needs her dress taken in "just a bit". In the end I will give in because she can't afford alterations.
And I work full time. and my house looks like c**p.
Conclusions I have reached:
1. I have way too much family.
2. I am indeed the favoite aunt.
2. I need to learn the word "no". (I overvolunteer also!)
Is there a program for sewers to learn to say no? (Just kidding - I know I do it to myself.)
2. One af my MANY dear nieces calls up: Do I have a quilt finished I could let her have for a prayer quilt for her church? So finished a quilt top for her. What do I want for it? I bit my lip and said $30.00 (about pays for the thread) because it was a church after all.
3. Another dear niece says can I make my 3 year old great nniece a bag from "horsie" fabric? I will get the fabric for you. Oh oh n o I will get the fabric. Four hours of sewing later I have a bag to give her. I did want to ex periment with my own pattern and after all she is an adorable 3 year old.
4. Another niece is going to be in a wedding and needs her dress taken in "just a bit". In the end I will give in because she can't afford alterations.
And I work full time. and my house looks like c**p.
Conclusions I have reached:
1. I have way too much family.
2. I am indeed the favoite aunt.
2. I need to learn the word "no". (I overvolunteer also!)
Is there a program for sewers to learn to say no? (Just kidding - I know I do it to myself.)
#47
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Amen!!! I made a gift for a gift exchange at work. Another friend almost grabbed it out of her hands because it fit her decor (it also fit the recipients decor to a tea). Now she is bugging me to make her the same items -- however the fabric I used is over 5 years old and I used most of what I had in that project. I told her the fabric is not available -- now she asks every time if I have found the fabric.
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Made a queen size trip around the world as a wedding gift. Hand quilted. It was appreciated so much that they wanted me to "make" it bigger so it could be a bed cover instead. Said it couldn't be done. No way was I going to try to add on to it. Accept what I gave and make it work.
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Originally Posted by QuiltnLady1
Amen!!! I made a gift for a gift exchange at work. Another friend almost grabbed it out of her hands because it fit her decor (it also fit the recipients decor to a tea). Now she is bugging me to make her the same items -- however the fabric I used is over 5 years old and I used most of what I had in that project. I told her the fabric is not available -- now she asks every time if I have found the fabric.
(After she gets her own sewing machine, cutting tools, etc etc)
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