Rude quilters
08-30-2010, 11:13 AM
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Originally Posted by Pat and pups
When someone is rude to me, I like to "hit 'em in the head with love." I'd have asked her if she was having a bad day or if she was tired from walking all over the exhibit. If I did it right, she would be ashamed of her original remark. She'd learn, and I'd be a nice person instead of lowering myself to her level.
sometimes you listen to the angel on your shoulder, but the offender is kicking you in your gut and you forget and listen to the other one! Oh well, I'll probably go on being a very nice mouse, but it's fun once in a while to blow off a little steam to friends ;-)
08-31-2010, 02:25 AM
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Yay ...someone expressing my thoughts!!!!
08-31-2010, 02:36 AM
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Wishing that quilter a rusty seam ripper.....
Originally Posted by momski
I went to the Milwaukee Art Museum to see the American Quilt exhibits and was confronted with some really rude quilters who treated me like a idiot. I won't go into specifics, I just wanted to remind everyone that quilters come in all shapes, sizes and ages. Don't assume someone doesn't know what they are talking about just because they don't look like your traditional quilter.
And if you are a lady in your 50's, brown hair, white shirt w/ print who was visiting the museum today with 2 other ladies of the same age who snickered at a young mom wearing a Mariners shirt.... I hope your sewing machine eats every last one of your quilts!
And if you are a lady in your 50's, brown hair, white shirt w/ print who was visiting the museum today with 2 other ladies of the same age who snickered at a young mom wearing a Mariners shirt.... I hope your sewing machine eats every last one of your quilts!
08-31-2010, 02:47 AM
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I've had a similar thing happen to me. I just smile, the in my head Pray for them, LOL that all their fabric dyes to run, their needles to break and bird nests on the back of ALL their future quilts.
Don't let the rudeness of someone else ruin your day. They are the ones who are lacking. You on the other hand are a wonderful Mariners fan. :)
Don't let the rudeness of someone else ruin your day. They are the ones who are lacking. You on the other hand are a wonderful Mariners fan. :)
08-31-2010, 02:50 AM
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What a rough job that must be! You're prob ready to cry or shoot someone at end of the shift.I learned all my quilting from books/mags.You just hang out here & any other nice quilting boards & you'll do fine.
This is why on my days off I come home at 7.am as I work 7p-7a close the door to the world and paint and trying to teach myself quilting.
This is why on my days off I come home at 7.am as I work 7p-7a close the door to the world and paint and trying to teach myself quilting.
08-31-2010, 02:50 AM
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lol..some people r so rude..
08-31-2010, 03:29 AM
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I hope I can remember the quick comebacks should I run into some rude quilt police--Loved the crack about the menopause. That would have set them back on their ear. ha. Don't pay any attention to people like that, there is always someone who will try to put another down. I try to "consider the source" when I run into people like that. Sad life they must have when they have to put others down.
08-31-2010, 03:38 AM
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Originally Posted by momski
And if you are a lady in your 50's, brown hair, white shirt w/ print who was visiting the museum today with 2 other ladies of the same age who snickered at a young mom wearing a Mariners shirt.... I hope your sewing machine eats every last one of your quilts!
Do you think that maybe this lady (?) was not a quilter and only wished she was? Maybe she was trying to impress someone and just didn't know how.........there are people like that !!!!!
If she is reading this, let's let her know that "we" quilters don't act like that and the next time, think before acting.
There...did that tell her anything?
08-31-2010, 03:48 AM
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Originally Posted by theoldgraymare
Unfortunately, there are snotty people everywhere. If only they knew what a negative impression they make.
08-31-2010, 04:09 AM
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AMEN.
Originally Posted by raptureready
Shame on them! But a quilt eating sewing machine???? That might be a little drastic! LOL
People can only put you down if you let them. If it should happen again just look the woman in the eye and say something like, "I've heard that menopause can sometimes make a woman really nasty and hateful, I guess it's true."
Or, "I'm sorry, did I inadvertantly convey the impression that you had the right to be snotty to me?" Don't ever let anyone make you feel less than what you are.
Naomi Judd once said, "Every woman should feel like a princess because we're all daughters of the most High King."
People can only put you down if you let them. If it should happen again just look the woman in the eye and say something like, "I've heard that menopause can sometimes make a woman really nasty and hateful, I guess it's true."
Or, "I'm sorry, did I inadvertantly convey the impression that you had the right to be snotty to me?" Don't ever let anyone make you feel less than what you are.
Naomi Judd once said, "Every woman should feel like a princess because we're all daughters of the most High King."
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