Go Back  Quiltingboard Forums >
  • Main
  • Quilts arent appreciated? >
  • Quilts arent appreciated?

  • Quilts arent appreciated?

    Thread Tools
     
    Old 02-08-2011, 12:52 PM
      #81  
    Senior Member
     
    ajohn52's Avatar
     
    Join Date: May 2010
    Location: Lincoln, Ne
    Posts: 365
    Default

    My Sis recently commented I should make a quilt for our niece. I gently told her what some of the comments were from the ladies here quoting prices for making or selling quilts. She hasn't brought it up since.
    ajohn52 is offline  
    Old 02-08-2011, 12:56 PM
      #82  
    Super Member
     
    Join Date: Nov 2010
    Location: Jozefow, Poland
    Posts: 4,474
    Default

    Originally Posted by momto4
    Originally Posted by pumpkinpatchquilter
    Originally Posted by bigsister63
    You should be giving a gift to make the receipent happy not to get compliments for yourself. Do you feel the same way about no appreciation when you give a store bought gift that you may have spent a lot of money on?. What do you expect person to do - jump up and down when they receive you quilt. The quilt should be made with love and given with love with no other expectations. Sounds like you are giving gifts for the wrong reason.
    As a matter of fact I do expect the recipient to jump up and down, and if they don't I snatch up the quilt and bring it back home with me. LMAO*

    . . . anyone if they aren't going appreciate it...be it a quilt or a pack of pencils from the dollar tree! LOL*
    Actually, I probably wouldn't jump up and down, but I might have tears in my eyes if someone gave me something so precious!

    And if someone doesn't want a gift, or can't appreciate what I give them, I figure I might as well save my time and money and just talk to them and save the gifts for someone else--someone who does like them or appreciate them, whether a pack of pencils or a quilt.
    justflyingin is offline  
    Old 02-08-2011, 02:28 PM
      #83  
    Junior Member
     
    Join Date: Aug 2007
    Location: Hiding in Maine
    Posts: 206
    Default

    I must apologize. I think I was harsh this morning. It hurts when loved ones and family think nothing about the thought and hard work we put into our gifts. I should not SAY that giving to get a thank you is wrong. I SHOULD SAY it would be nice to be truely thanked. I have had many people say,oh big deal a home made gift. I have learned to share with those in need and only make gifts for those who request one.
    I AM SO SORRY FOR SOUNDING SO JUDGEMENTAL,(PS I can't spell)
    Please forgive me,Chrissy B
    christina bennett is offline  
    Old 02-08-2011, 02:33 PM
      #84  
    Senior Member
     
    Join Date: Feb 2011
    Location: Philomath,Ore
    Posts: 499
    Default

    My brother is the only one that doesn't have a clue! I recently made one for him as his Chemo quilt. His wife understands why I made one for him. He appeared to like it when he saw it, and called it a blanket. That's OK, I think when he gets around to reading the label, it might make sense to him. I would have made it for him anyway since there is nothing else I can do.
    Bjbaxter is offline  
    Old 02-08-2011, 02:39 PM
      #85  
    Super Member
     
    RkayD's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Sep 2010
    Location: Oklahoma
    Posts: 1,830
    Default

    Mine too! Thats why I started making more for ME! =)
    RkayD is offline  
    Old 02-08-2011, 03:20 PM
      #86  
    Super Member
     
    anicra's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Jun 2010
    Location: Flemington, NJ
    Posts: 1,167
    Default

    I do only give away quilts to those that are important to me. I gave matching quilts to my wonderful brother-in-law and his wfie years ago and months later, they couldn't wait to tell m how much their two dogs loved the quilts. They were not kids - they were both in their 40's at the time. Go figure.
    anicra is offline  
    Old 02-08-2011, 03:22 PM
      #87  
    Member
     
    Join Date: Jan 2010
    Location: Ks
    Posts: 92
    Default

    I am going to jump in here because years ago I too was one of those people I think I got the impression because I heard "old timers" talk about the left over fabric,feed sacks etc so I just assumed they didn't pay for that but once I got interested in embroidery work knitting and now quilting I have really changed my attitude.
    finchelover is offline  
    Old 02-08-2011, 03:23 PM
      #88  
    Super Member
     
    Buckeye Rose's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Jan 2011
    Location: Monroe, IN
    Posts: 2,283
    Default

    I made a quilt for my 10 yr old granddaughter for Christmas in her favorite Buckeyes colors, red, gray, black and white. She wasn't real excited about it until her mother explained what is worth and then she didn't want to use it, afraid of damage! We explained that it was made to be used and now it is the only blanket on her bed. She just loves it!

    So, yes, I understand completely.
    Buckeye Rose is offline  
    Old 02-08-2011, 03:36 PM
      #89  
    Senior Member
     
    Anna.425's Avatar
     
    Join Date: Jan 2011
    Location: Bellevue, WA
    Posts: 735
    Default

    I have had a wonderful response to my quilts including my niece and nephew who immediately showed them to my brother and then put them on their beds. I do most of my quilts for donations. I have one question for you. I can only store so many quilts in my home, if you don't give them away, what do you do with your quilts.
    Anna.425 is offline  
    Old 02-08-2011, 04:16 PM
      #90  
    Junior Member
     
    Join Date: Aug 2007
    Location: Hiding in Maine
    Posts: 206
    Default

    I just find more groups that need a hug wrapped in a quilt.
    There are more people in need than you can imagine.
    christina bennett is offline  
    Related Topics
    Thread
    Thread Starter
    Forum
    Replies
    Last Post
    SuziC
    Pictures
    15
    05-05-2010 01:12 PM
    kasmitty1
    Main
    9
    03-16-2010 04:16 PM
    beaglegirl
    Main
    7
    03-04-2010 01:20 PM
    Rhonda
    General Chit-Chat (non-quilting talk)
    20
    01-06-2010 01:26 PM
    Shadow Dancer
    Main
    7
    10-21-2007 01:40 AM

    Posting Rules
    You may not post new threads
    You may not post replies
    You may not post attachments
    You may not edit your posts

    BB code is On
    Smilies are On
    [IMG] code is On
    HTML code is On
    Trackbacks are Off
    Pingbacks are Off
    Refbacks are Off



    FREE Quilting Newsletter