I was so glad to hear that most of you don't get your feelings hurt when your gift quilts aren't used as you expected them to be used, or aren't used at all. Most of you turn your feelings off when you give the quilt away. Good for you, truly! But do you really not care when you find out that the person has in turn given your quilt away to someone else? Maybe Goodwill, maybe a friend or a stranger? When they so obviously didn't want the quilt? That has made me put a person on a "gift card only" list.