behavior problem question
#71
8 years old,well lets just say you were way easier on him than I would have been. And as far as catching flack from others ,hmmmm lets just say they will be sorry for letting bad behavior slide when he is a teen...
#74
I probably would have taken him to the store with his piggy bank and made him purchase another toy for his brother so he would see how much things cost and that you shouldn't break things just because you are angry. If he didn't have that much money, then I would have made him work for the rest by doing chores for you and your hubby until the amount of the purchase was satisfied. We don't make our kids accountable for their actions and that makes them rotten!
#77
I was a foster parent for 12 years. I worked side by side with experts as I took difficult children, because I took them only one or two at a time, and did not have any of my own children. I think what you did was great! I would have gone farther and expected the whole $15.
#79
Originally Posted by feline fanatic
IMHO, parents who do not teach their children that there are consequences for their actions (bad and good) are doing their children a grave disservice and eventually releasing irresponsible adults into society who have a misguided sense of entitlement.
What you did was perfectly acceptable and hopefully a good life lesson. I simply can not understand parents who think their children should not be disciplined in any way.
What you did was perfectly acceptable and hopefully a good life lesson. I simply can not understand parents who think their children should not be disciplined in any way.
#80
I agree with the other responses here. You did the right thing! It will teach your GS to think before he acts, and that his actions have consequences. But I would not give his $5 back! That would negate the lesson. Good job, gramma!
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