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    Old 09-11-2010, 06:42 AM
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    Just realized you billed yourself as a "cajun" I too am of Acadian decent.........Richard. One of the original 53 + or _.
    Thank you for the anniversary wishes.
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    Old 09-11-2010, 08:03 AM
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    You are all so very lucky. Please take care of those great husbands. My husband has been gone for seven months now and I really miss him. Years ago he built me a sewing area. He made me a huge table (4'x8') to spread out patterns, fabrics or whatever I was working on at the time. He had his work shop on one side of the basement and my sewing area was on the other. We had almost 45 good years together.
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    Old 09-11-2010, 08:19 AM
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    Lol! Mine thought this was another of my "passing fancies"! After almost 10 years now he is resigned to the fact that it is here to stay. Every room in our house except the master has something to do with fabric in it.
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    Old 09-11-2010, 10:09 AM
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    My husband is also great. We were both divorced and pretty independent when we met. So he can cook, clean, etc. We have a good time working together. We just finished building a fence in our yard. We are getting ready to paint our house. We have completely remodeled our house ourselves. But, I am a quilter and he a fisherman. He knows where most of the LQS are and I know where most of the LFS (fishing) store are. He is great with color and helps with everything. I make him shirts out of fishing fabric. Then, we go to the Sierras and he fishes and I quilt while there. We stay in a motel with a big window. When he comes in from fishing we go to quilt stores, fishing stores, shopping. We have been married 27 years now and really enjoy each other and every day I thank God for him.
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    Old 09-11-2010, 11:15 AM
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    Originally Posted by #1piecemaker
    Hey, what can I say.... my DH has joined me and is putting out more more than I am. He beats all I've ever seen. He can mark and cut all day long and it doesn't bother him a bit. I can't sit that long. And when he is on the machine.... Well that's another story. But, he still hasn't learned to fill those bobbins!!!
    Precious!
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    Old 09-11-2010, 11:17 AM
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    Originally Posted by raptureready
    Originally Posted by vanessa
    Since we are on the subject of husbands....

    What do you ladies do (or gentleman do) when your spouse wants your attention and has nothing to do with themself? Mine does not have a hobby at all and wants my attention and that keeps me from quilting when I want to. I try to plan days just for us to do things together but he still wants my attention constantly.
    Go buy him a new pair of jeans. Tell them they're his Big Boy Britches and he's to wear them every time you need to work on your quilting. Also explain that when he puts them on he'll feel empowered to do something for himself--by himself. Either that or teach him to quilt.:lol: :lol: And trust me, it could be worse. Mine is so insecure that he lashes out all the time with negative comments. Even though I know he doesn't really mean them they still hurt. I've been working so hard on making his grandson and great grandaughters quilts for Christmas and the other day he said that everything I make looks like s_ _ _! I know he didn't mean it but it still cut to the bone.
    Just remember that we love you, and are here for you if you need us! WE LOVE YOUR QUILTING and YOU!
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    Old 09-11-2010, 11:27 AM
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    Originally Posted by Mimito2
    Hubby and I have been married 33yrs. He is an alcoholic and has never supported anything I do. Never has a kind word about anything and is always negative. He wants to know every penny I spend, every place I go and every person I talk to. NOT HAPPENING. I don't smoke, drink, use drugs or cheat.. I went to co-dependence classes and learned that I didn't have to react to his actions. I taught my sons to play ball, change oil in a car etc. and I do all the handiwork around the house including remodeling the house my sons rent from me. His free time is spent by himself drinking or in front of the TV passed out. He is a diabetic with stage 4 cirrhosis and is completely happy being miserable. PLEASE don't feel sorry for me. I pretty much do as I please and have been known to tell him to put on His Big Girl panties and deal with it. Life sews on. :)
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    Old 09-11-2010, 11:39 AM
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    Good for you!! Life is way too short to just stop living! Mine is the same but he went dry four years ago and got the help he needed, we still have our ups and doens but there is more laughter then tears now days.
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    Old 09-11-2010, 12:35 PM
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    Originally Posted by hazeljane
    My husband is a saint. The quilting he appreciates and puts up with , but he also married into my dog rescue.

    Last night, I came home with 6 more puppymill dogs. There is mud everywhere, and frightened dogs. He helped me bathe them, and held each one for a little while.

    I know that he'll come home from lunch today and do the mid day mopping, because I have to work in an office today instead of at home.

    It's raining here, and the new scared dogs keep going outside, where there are no people (just lots of wet mud) and with 15 dogs in the house temporarily (until some of the new ones go to their foster homes) it's a giant mess.
    I think there are more saints in your home than just your husband. Thanks for saving the puppies, I got the sweatest saint bernard from just outside Tulsa 10 years ago and we just lost her this June. Hope your life is filled with sunshine. Gail
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    Old 09-11-2010, 12:43 PM
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    Originally Posted by raptureready
    Originally Posted by vanessa
    Since we are on the subject of husbands....

    What do you ladies do (or gentleman do) when your spouse wants your attention and has nothing to do with themself? Mine does not have a hobby at all and wants my attention and that keeps me from quilting when I want to. I try to plan days just for us to do things together but he still wants my attention constantly.
    Go buy him a new pair of jeans. Tell them they're his Big Boy Britches and he's to wear them every time you need to work on your quilting. Also explain that when he puts them on he'll feel empowered to do something for himself--by himself. Either that or teach him to quilt. :lol: :lol: And trust me, it could be worse. Mine is so insecure that he lashes out all the time with negative comments. Even though I know he doesn't really mean them they still hurt. I've been working so hard on making his grandson and great grandaughters quilts for Christmas and the other day he said that everything I make looks like s_ _ _! I know he didn't mean it but it still cut to the bone.
    Raptureready, I have been admiring the quilt in your avatar and wishing that I had the pattern and I would make me one with the exasct same colors. You do beautiful work and remind him that people in heaven will not talk like that. God bless you for your patience. Gail
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